jaggy666 Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 Just under two months ago I came up with a plan to sort my life out. I had just broken up with someone (wasnt serious), hours at work got slashed, struggled with bills and basically things were not going well. I thought about my priorities and getting a new job was number one, i decided that dating or getting a girlfriend was not on the agenda and for that two months I did what i needed to do. I got a new job, more money and was looking forward to doing my own thing. Then last tuesday night, i went out for a friends birthday and met someone (these things certainly sneak up on you!) She is a friend of the bday girl and we got talking and really clicked. We went back to our friends house with others and got quite drunk. We spent the night together and as much as i enjoyed it I cant help but feel it was wrong to do so. Thing is, she gave me her number and we arranged to go out this monday for a coffee. I like her a lot and ive been told she is very interested also but will it be weird meeting her again knowing what we got up to? Another mutual friend informed me he was surprised because she isnt the type of person to go spend the night with a guy and she told him she wasnt that drunk that night, she just really liked me. The next morning i walked her to the train station and we shared a kiss, there's definatley something there. My question is, how do i go about this first date? i thought we should meet up for coffee and if we hit it off ill suggest we go for dinner. Did we go too far that night? What do i do?
zebracolors Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 I think if you have gotten to the point where there was a welcomed kiss, then pretty much anything you ask will be accepted I would think. And a nice dinner sounds like a logical next date. But still there need not be any hurry to rush this forward as you are still sorting other aspects of your life out. This woman can be a part of your life just make sure she knows you are going to be both working and looking for another job in the next weeks/months but that you still want to get to know her better. Hope this helps and good luck.
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