Nacnacmetz Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 First time poster here, in need of some serious advice. So I recently met a girl and as said I've been seeing her for about a month and a half now. Recently, I found out about a week after we started "talking" she made out with 5 guys in one night... Now I'm not normally the jealous type and she was drunk.. but that night she came over to my house after the bars ended and we spent the night together. She told me that night she made out with someone, and when I got a bit standoffish she said that she was "testing me" and that she didn't make out with anyone. Now the making out with 5 guys thing is bad, but the thing that concerns me is that she lied (she recently got out of a 3 year engagement and does not want things to be too serious, although that's changing as we've talked). I really do like her a lot and she is apologetic and I feel like I should accept her apology. But at the same time I feel like I cannot just accept her apology immediately and am thinking I should wait a bit before calling her again? I don't want her to think I am weak but I definitely do not want to lose her..This is the first day we have not talked like the second week we were talking... Sorry if this post is rant style, sort of buzzed right now and letting it flow.. Any advice would be much appreciated.
Feelin Frisky Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 You seem like a straight arrow. It'll bust you up if she's an unfaithful slut and the talk of town. Too bad she didn't do this on your first date. Either you could have gotten on line and given up on belief or just bolted. That's mightily DISRESPECTFUL and no amount of alcohol excuses going slutsville while out with you. Dump that and consider yourself lucky that is was only a month and a half.
Author Nacnacmetz Posted May 7, 2010 Author Posted May 7, 2010 @ Feelin. Yeah.. Really part of me agrees with the just cutting her loose but it was situational.. She did "make out" with some guys but she came back to me that night. As I said, we were just talking at that point and nothing was serious, but she did come back to me. I really do not want to lose her, is that bad..?
Tim The Enchanter Posted May 12, 2010 Posted May 12, 2010 Really, you should launch this girl without any hesitation. One guy is one guy too many, she had FIVE. What does that say about her respect for you? Very little.
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