Whens Enough ... Enough ... N

[mimanchi]

I posted a thread earlier about my long distance relationship. My girlfriend or whatever we are right now is on her "break". I broke up with her. She didn't want that. Then we got back. Then the next day she wanted her break. I don't even know what we are.

 

Anyways, I've had no contact since monday. When is enough enough. I'm ready to kill the relationship not because I want to, but because A. I havent done anything wrong to be dumped and B. Reference A. I've been a great boyfriend and she knows it. She hasn't given up anything for me, even said I loved her more. I dont want to walk away, but its not a fear of mine to lose her -- its a fear to have one last knife plundged in my stomach.

 

If I wait it out still -- and she calls me for a dump, I'm thinking less is more. I dont evne want to give her the satisfaction of my voice. How would you all handle it.

 

Or, do I just break before / if she does. Again, I dont want to, but she heavily into games it seems now. She has this power thing. She say some stuff that makes me want to run, but I dont know if she means it or what bc she always goes back. I either want a relation with her that moves forward in a healthy way or not. I wrote a beautiful email, I meant all my kind words, full of love, but I break it with her. She will never be able to say a bad thing about me -- never. Should I just go down that route and no wait for her "break" to come to an end?

 

Any ideas are welcomed. Thank you

Edited May 7, 2010 by mimanchi

[doomage]

It's great that you're not afraid to lose her. Why did you break up with her though the first time?

 

In my honest opinion I would just call it quits because generally when somone asks for a break it's a half a$$ed way of testing the waters with other people, or having your cake and eating it too. If she steps up to the plate and tries to be on your side again, then I would consider getting back with her. right now she's playing games being all undecisive, so do what you feel.