thats what i said Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 I've seen so many happy couples in my life that have lasted what seem forever and people have always told me I'd find that person that would make me happy to spend my entire life with him. I've yet to date someone that's really made me feel that way. Well, except for a few relationships that were simply unhealthy. At my new job, I finally found that guy that I would marry in a heartbeat. But, then I found out that he has a fiancee and baby at home... Like Alanis Morissette said, "you meet the man of your dreams and then meet his BEAUTIFUL wife..." I'm not the kind of girl to break up a couple (much less a family!) so I've done my best to not let him know how I feel in any way as much as it pains me. But he comes over and chats with me a lot and he asks me to go on breaks with him during work so at the very least, we've developed some kind of friendship. He lightly and jokingly made a comment to me today that someone told him I was flirting with him. I told him I was sorry I gave him that impression and that I hadn't intended to. He laughed it off saying that that "someone" is always telling him girls are flirting with him. Well, afterwards, he seemed a little less nice. He made some weird comment that just didn't seem like him and I'm wondering what the hell just happened... I mean, shouldn't he have been happy that I "wasn't flirting with him"? And why are all the good ones taken?
green apples Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 Can you say what kind of weird comment that was? If you're able to divulge, that is.
Engadget Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 I've seen so many happy couples in my life that have lasted what seem forever and people have always told me I'd find that person that would make me happy to spend my entire life with him. I've yet to date someone that's really made me feel that way. Well, except for a few relationships that were simply unhealthy. At my new job, I finally found that guy that I would marry in a heartbeat. But, then I found out that he has a fiancee and baby at home... Like Alanis Morissette said, "you meet the man of your dreams and then meet his BEAUTIFUL wife..." I'm not the kind of girl to break up a couple (much less a family!) so I've done my best to not let him know how I feel in any way as much as it pains me. But he comes over and chats with me a lot and he asks me to go on breaks with him during work so at the very least, we've developed some kind of friendship. He lightly and jokingly made a comment to me today that someone told him I was flirting with him. I told him I was sorry I gave him that impression and that I hadn't intended to. He laughed it off saying that that "someone" is always telling him girls are flirting with him. Well, afterwards, he seemed a little less nice. He made some weird comment that just didn't seem like him and I'm wondering what the hell just happened... I mean, shouldn't he have been happy that I "wasn't flirting with him"? And why are all the good ones taken? The only girl I've met that's truly interested me has a boyfriend, who happens to be a friend of mine. Tell me about it.
Author thats what i said Posted May 7, 2010 Author Posted May 7, 2010 Can you say what kind of weird comment that was? If you're able to divulge, that is. Basically I had asked him for a favor but then told him a little bit later that if he couldn't do it, I wouldn't be upset with him (I was just trying to let him off the hook easy, in case he felt like I was imposing and was too nice to say no). He walked away and said really loud (yup, the whole office could hear) that he didn't care what I thought about him.
green apples Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 That's really not a nice thing to have said. Maybe he was flirting with you and expected you to confirm that you were flirting back. Whichever way, steer away.
PJKino Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 All the good ones are NOT taken Buy good ones she dosnt mean good guys she means extremely handsome confident charming
Frontliner Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 By the time you find them it's too late, they're already taken. You have to go after them when they're much younger. Before they peak and then you can mould them into the perfect guy. Simple.
bananalaffytaffy Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 Uh, he's not a "good one" if he's gonna act like a douchebag like that.
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