romer Posted May 6, 2010 Posted May 6, 2010 I guess I am now going through an anger phase...ex and I split up a couple of months ago...he already had someone waiting in the wings. After 1.5 years, two deaths (his sister, my mother), tears, laughter, sharing, caring, love - he threw it all way for this woman who is known around our parts as a crack whore. I just don't understand to this day how he could have done that to me and how she just sweeps in and takes him away so easily. I am a responsible single mother holding down two jobs, not into drugs, attractive...I just don't get it! Can someone help me "get it"????
Ilovecake Posted May 6, 2010 Posted May 6, 2010 You have to admit no matter what anger feels so much better than sad, so congratulations on your anger stat age. I'm just slowly getting out of mine but still not there. I wasn't left for a crackwhore but I was left for a dumbass by a dumbass, so almost the same. The thing is that you probably will never know the real why and how but it's probably better not knowing. The truth might be too difficult and confusing to handle. The thing you should feel good about is that if he chose to downgrade this much imagine what is going on with this guy's self esteem. He obviously doesn't feel he can live up to the person that you deserve to be with. He's not good enough for you and he knows it. He had to find someone even below his standard of living to make himself feel better about the person he is. I think you'll do fine and in the future you'll be thankful that he gave you the opportunity to find someone of your own caliber.
Author romer Posted May 6, 2010 Author Posted May 6, 2010 He obviously doesn't feel he can live up to the person that you deserve to be with. He's not good enough for you and he knows it. He had to find someone even below his standard of living to make himself feel better about the person he is. This is what I have been told by a good friend who happens to be a guy. I guess I just can't see it, being inside the fishbowl. What makes even less sense is that he and his mom are very close, and she has told a mutual friend of ours that her son is stupid and this new girl is nothing but trash. She said she still loves me too, so that makes me feel better, but it's like he is defying his own mom now. Makes me wonder if he's not into the drugs.
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