Author befreckled Posted May 6, 2010 Author Posted May 6, 2010 Doesn't it really depend on what you're looking for right now in life? That is a good point but no one wants to start a relationship if there isn't a future. You know what I mean, what's the point of dating with an expiry date? Truthfully neither is a healthy relationship, if you have no feelings for #1 it's not going to end well and if #2 has no feelings for you it's not going to end well. That said I'd rather be loved, I give love easily but I don't feel it returned often. Nothing like being needed. Things are new with #1 so, it's hard to tell if the feelings are just anything more than butterflies. And #2, there is a definite physical attraction but, at the end of the day, i'd like to be taken care of and not have to look after someone. If that makes sense? Being loved is always better in my experience. At least it's secure, while the other always causes heartbreak and grief. That's how I feel. My ex-fiance is probably the love of my life because, there was so much that he gave up for me but I was a young, naive dumbo who didn't know how to appreciate him and that's probably my biggest regret..That said, I don't wanna give #1 a fighting chance if I know that there's no future. It'd be cruel.
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