Cantcope Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 Can't believe I made it this far. For those of you doing NC, great job! I will be the first to admit that I did (and probably do to a point) still hope that NC will make him miss me and want me back, but the healing I've done in the past 8 days is incredible. I've had set backs and ups and downs (have to see him EVERY DAY), but it can only get better right? The fog is lifting and I am really starting to see that he's just not right for me. Still not ready for HIM to move on so quickly (unfortunately I can't get past equating him not missing me to my own self worth), but if I were still in contact, I would still be sitting in bed crying 20 hours of the day. Chins up people. We CAN and WILL do this!!!
CaliGuy Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 Try not to think of NC as a way to make them miss you. Think of NC as the way YOU find YOURSELF and move on with life. Life is very good for those who think of the POSITIVE things they have going for them. Not the fish that got away (and never deserved you to being with, either). Cheers
Author Cantcope Posted May 5, 2010 Author Posted May 5, 2010 He spoke to me....AGAIN. The next time, if there IS a next time, I hope I'm not so shocked that I can actually look at him and say "please leave me alone"! Got a "what's goin on"....and my dumb a** says "not much". NOT MUCH?? LMAO!!!!!!!
NickelbackFan Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 This is my day 8 too and I am still very much upset and devastated. I am trying so hard not to contact her. I wrote a letter telling her how I feel and just saved it. I did it as a sort of a catharsis.
collegemommy Posted May 6, 2010 Posted May 6, 2010 YAY! I like reading that you are doing better... Keep the no contact and like I told you before, this is a toxic relationship that you do not need to be in. Even if he ends up talking to you, missing you, and wanting to work things out, would you really want to work things out? You and I both know how very unhealthy this relationship is for you... Keep up the good work!!
Author Cantcope Posted May 6, 2010 Author Posted May 6, 2010 Day 9....I'm on FIRE!!! Kicking butt and taking names here! College - I'm still no where near 100% so I DO fear that although I know it's a crappy relationship and he's bad for me, I don't know that I would say no to a reconciliation at this point, so all thugh I would love for him to come begging for me, I suppose it's good that he doesn't so I can continue to grow stronger. XOXO!! Hope you are doing ok today. I'm always available for you!
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