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ICouldSayTheSame

By ICouldSayTheSame
in Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy

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Windsurf66 Established Member

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I'm not judging anyone. When you get to a certain stage of maturity, you realize that an "eye for an eye" isn't always the best policy. In my experience, since I had feelings for that bf who was jerking me around, still staying close to him even if I was "using him" was still going to hurt me in the long run.

 

It sounds like the OP genuinely liked and cared for this girl, so IMO he is looking out for his own best interests by cutting her off completely. Just move on. There are plenty of women out there to casually date OR have a solid LTR with, without resorting to tit-for-tat revenge.

 

Oh yes, very mature girl, as i have mentioned, this isn't about revenge, eye for eye, sex for money or whatever crap :) its just the state of their relationship, i.e. the girl wants to explore with the ex on the facade of a "friendship", so the relationship is not exlusive anymore, and his status is no longer bf. Just friends, perhaps with benefits if both sides are fine with it. This is the reality, as reflected by the girl's actions. You are thinking too much about revenge, its responding appropriately to the situation in accordance with pragmatism :)

stace79 Established Member

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Oh yes, very mature girl, as i have mentioned, this isn't about revenge, eye for eye, sex for money or whatever crap :) its just the state of their relationship, i.e. the girl wants to explore with the ex on the facade of a "friendship", so the relationship is not exlusive anymore, and his status is no longer bf. Just friends, perhaps with benefits if both sides are fine with it. This is the reality, as reflected by the girl's actions. You are thinking too much about revenge, its responding appropriately to the situation in accordance with pragmatism :)

 

[sigh] Can't you read? You write like you're all of 20 years old, if that.

Windsurf66 Established Member

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[sigh] Can't you read? You write like you're all of 20 years old, if that.

 

Oh yes, 79 years old granny, or born in 1979 and 31 this year? I can see how mature you are when someone who do not agree with your view is immature :)

 

Whatever it is, mature girl, let the OP decide which advice is more appropriate for their situation

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