Eclipse11 Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 (edited) Hi everyone...on another thread you will see that my ex-boyfriend treated me quite badly and I have broken it off and I'm feeling much better...he wasn't all bad though and I do still miss him... He wants us to meet tomorrow evening, I agreed to this earlier in the week however I am now thinking of cancelling... I know how it will turn out for us both...awful He will want to show me how nice he can be and win me over... I will need to say over and over...again...that my mind is made up ( I've already done this over the course of a whole weekend when we did break up and he was trying to get me to change my mind ) He will go home feeling bad, I will go home feeling guilty... UNLESS...somehow he gained closure from it, he says he has no expectations and we could somehow make the meeting "nice" or "good"... In a way as well, it would be nice to see him just as friends and I'd have a lovely evening...but am I giving him false hope then? S'pose so... I have a day to decide...can anyone advise me?>.................... Many thanks Eclipse x Edited May 5, 2010 by Eclipse11
Tim The Enchanter Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 Why did you agree to meet him, if you don't want a reconciliation? Personally I would find it difficult just to remain friends with an ex. I mean, I'd hate to have them out of my life completely, but if we were friends I'd always be wanting us to get back together. I haven't read your other thread, so I have no idea how he behaved when you were together.
TangoWithYou Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 If you don't want a reconciliation, better don't meet with him.
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