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Hi everyone...on another thread you will see that my ex-boyfriend treated me quite badly and I have broken it off and I'm feeling much better...he wasn't all bad though and I do still miss him...

 

He wants us to meet tomorrow evening, I agreed to this earlier in the week however I am now thinking of cancelling...

 

I know how it will turn out for us both...awful

 

He will want to show me how nice he can be and win me over...

I will need to say over and over...again...that my mind is made up ( I've already done this over the course of a whole weekend when we did break up and he was trying to get me to change my mind )

 

He will go home feeling bad, I will go home feeling guilty...

 

UNLESS...somehow he gained closure from it, he says he has no expectations and we could somehow make the meeting "nice" or "good"...

 

In a way as well, it would be nice to see him just as friends and I'd have a lovely evening...but am I giving him false hope then? S'pose so...

 

I have a day to decide...can anyone advise me?>....................

 

Many thanks Eclipse x

Edited by Eclipse11
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Why did you agree to meet him, if you don't want a reconciliation? Personally I would find it difficult just to remain friends with an ex. I mean, I'd hate to have them out of my life completely, but if we were friends I'd always be wanting us to get back together.

 

I haven't read your other thread, so I have no idea how he behaved when you were together.

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If you don't want a reconciliation, better don't meet with him.

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