wingman2 Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 As some of you know me and my ex have been contacting eachother again always responding the next day. Over 2 weeks ago she contacted me saying that she's been thinking about me and missing me and wondering if I have too. We talked throughout that week by text until we got together that Friday and had our last conversation before getting back into NC. I then wrote her 2 nights ago asking her politely what her intention was for wanting to talk to me and what she was hoping to get out of it. She responded by telling me that she wanted to know how I was feeling since the breakup and if I still cared and if she was the only one who missed me a lot. I then responded back asking why it may have been a concern to her and tonight she just wrote back saying "isn't it kind of obvious?" The moment I read this my heart jumped but I shouldn't get my hopes up. To me it sounds like she wants to get back but I'm still unsure and not sure how to respond. It's late so I'll respond tomorrow but what is your guy's take on this? Does it sound like she may be hinting towards reconciliation? My friend thinks it's the big hint but at the same time if she wanted to get back wouldn't she have just said so to begin with? Then again my ex was never direct with things. Our last break up we ended up on a break andd she asked if the break is working for me but never asked if I want to get back together, I had to find that out on my own. Is it possible she may have wanted to get back together then but not anymore? Please tell me what you guys think.
Ronni_W Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 she just wrote back saying "isn't it kind of obvious?" Tell her, "I am not a mind reader so, no, it is not obvious to me." And add one of these:
Arabella Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 Don't assume anything. Like Ronni suggested, ask her for an answer in no uncertain terms. If she wants to get back together, she will say so. If she doesn't, she's just playing mind games and looking for an ego boost. Arabella
Author wingman2 Posted May 6, 2010 Author Posted May 6, 2010 Well I don't know what to think right now. I feel like we're just playing games with eachother and I feel she might be annoyed. I asked if she's implying that she wants to try and work something out and she responded with "what do you mean in something?" I just feel like this is getting us no where. What do I say now? I just feel like apologizing for asking too many questions and then just forget it. I guess if she wants to try and work something she'll just say it. I thought for a while she wanted me back but now I'm just thinking she's messing with me.
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