PJKino Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 The fact that this thread even exists shows otherwise... Yes becasue the only thing holding a Man back is confidence:rolleyes: It cant possibly be that women arent attracted to some guys all they need is "confidence" and women will flock Could you people be anymore cliche?
OpenGL Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 My advice is to ignore pretty much what everybody else has to say on here and listen to SteveC80. He is the man on here and he knows dating and women. Everybody this forum except a select few are actually in touch with reality. So far only SteveC80 and MissJones have told you anything of value. Yes, it's your looks. You're not really a good looking dude at all. I'm average and I'm better looking than you. You actually have more dating power than me though since you're 6'0 and I'm 5'7, so you already have better potential than me. I have pretty much maxed out my looks short of plastic surgery (which I may be looking into in the future).
Author RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted May 15, 2010 Author Posted May 15, 2010 (edited) The fact that this thread even exists shows otherwise... That is the bottom line. This thread gives us a glimpse of a man making excuses. If you had confidence then you wouldn't have made a thread titled "I can't attract women" ... confidence is a can do attitude that laughs in the face of rejection. I didn't get my first real gf until I was 22 and graduated from college.... Looking back I never even tried. Since college I have been rejected by many, many women... some women reject you so kindly and sweetly it makes you feel like they said yes... other women reject you in uncalled ways that make you think wtf i just tried to talk to her why is she calling me some loser freak ect... you have to shrug it off and move foward. You have to be making bold moves... you have to be TOUCHING THEM... and KISSING them. Be bold, whens the last time you just walked onto the dance floor and started dancing with a girl? Look man bottom line you made this thread so don't argue you are confident always because you sound like a man who has quit. How I am making excuses when I am tying? I do have confidence and talk to women just fine. I do try. Not one girl has rejected me in a kind manner. It is impossible to be physical when a girl when she tells you to get the **** away. They seem so freaked out like a bug has touched them. My advice is to ignore pretty much what everybody else has to say on here and listen to SteveC80. He is the man on here and he knows dating and women. Everybody this forum except a select few are actually in touch with reality. So far only SteveC80 and MissJones have told you anything of value. Yes, it's your looks. You're not really a good looking dude at all. I'm average and I'm better looking than you. You actually have more dating power than me though since you're 6'0 and I'm 5'7, so you already have better potential than me. I have pretty much maxed out my looks short of plastic surgery (which I may be looking into in the future). What's wrong with the way I look? Be honest your hair is one. your hairline needs to be lined up a lot better. and maybe try a wave kit or whatever the brothas do to keep their hair looking tight. try some 360s. some nice subtle waves. you have NO facial hair. this will help you out tremendously. try to grow a beard or a mustache to make you look more masculine. make sure it doesn't grow all knotty so you wont look like you should be out chasing lions in the african safari. maybe some nice sideburns. i know you dont like black chicks but this is why. your ears are funny looking but with a nice haircut with some 360s, and a mustache/beard this can be overlooked. you need something to distract those ears. it will give you that edge you need. I do have facial hair, but not the in the pictures I have. I have sideburns, mustache, and a hairline. Edited May 15, 2010 by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN
BeautifulMan Posted May 15, 2010 Posted May 15, 2010 When you're going out looking for girls, put in contacts instead of wearing those rectangular spekkies. Clothing, and the way you present yourself to the public (posture,facial expressions)' Luckily your skin is evenly toned and you aren't fat so you're ahead of some of the guys lol but it would help especially if you toned some muscles. I've witnessed my ugly and skinny friend turn into a gym freak and get some 8's and 9's. Temporarily boosting this guy's confidence isn't going to do jack, you ask why you can't get girls, it seems you are blind to your image. Just sayin'
Author RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted May 15, 2010 Author Posted May 15, 2010 When you're going out looking for girls, put in contacts instead of wearing those rectangular spekkies. Clothing, and the way you present yourself to the public (posture,facial expressions)' Luckily your skin is evenly toned and you aren't fat so you're ahead of some of the guys lol but it would help especially if you toned some muscles. I've witnessed my ugly and skinny friend turn into a gym freak and get some 8's and 9's. Temporarily boosting this guy's confidence isn't going to do jack, you ask why you can't get girls, it seems you are blind to your image. Just sayin' As faith has it I cannot wear contacts. I went to my eye doctor early this year. In a few years I could get lasik because I will be at the right age to get it. However, in 20 years I will have to go get it again or get glasses because my eyes will change again. What about clothing? Blind to my image?
385 Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 All the people you know suck! If people call you ugly, make fun of you, and you don't like it, they aren't your friends. Find better friends.
Green Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 It is impossible to be physical when a girl when she tells you to get the **** away. They seem so freaked out like a bug has touched them. Girls will do that, it has happened to me personaly. Its not easy and there is no secret to getting better at this. Just keep trying its not imposible. Get over the fact that girls are mean... From a girls perspective plenty of guys are mean...
Author RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted May 16, 2010 Author Posted May 16, 2010 Girls will do that, it has happened to me personaly. Its not easy and there is no secret to getting better at this. Just keep trying its not imposible. Get over the fact that girls are mean... From a girls perspective plenty of guys are mean... I don't see as girls are mean to an extent. I am trying.
TaurusTerp Posted May 16, 2010 Posted May 16, 2010 You are too skinny. Hit the gym. Get some contacts. The powernerd look doesn't work for you. Right now, you are unattractive. But I think with some work you can easily fix the unattractive parts. You should look into dressing better as well. The suit is hideous, as is the short sleeve button up and polo shirt.
AD1980 Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 You need to gain some weight,your better of being an overweight guy then a skinny guy these days Women are afraid of their own shadow these days and think they need "protection"
Author RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted May 17, 2010 Author Posted May 17, 2010 You are too skinny. Hit the gym. Get some contacts. The powernerd look doesn't work for you. Right now, you are unattractive. But I think with some work you can easily fix the unattractive parts. You should look into dressing better as well. The suit is hideous, as is the short sleeve button up and polo shirt. Please read my posts. I am working out. I cannot gain weight fast like other guys. I already said I cannot wear contacts as told by my doctor. People compliment my clothes so I will not be changing them. Any other options for me to change?
Green Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 Please read my posts. I am working out. I cannot gain weight fast like other guys. I already said I cannot wear contacts as told by my doctor. People compliment my clothes so I will not be changing them. Any other options for me to change? My advice don't change a thing. Just end this thread. The answer to your thread is YOU CAN ATTRACT WOMEN. Other then that this is not a journal as you have not talked about a single thing you have tried
Author RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted May 17, 2010 Author Posted May 17, 2010 How do I look in these pictures? Yes, the shirt is way too big. http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/Franklin/?action=view¤t=19864_1320116529473_1427601383_9124.jpg http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/Franklin/?action=view¤t=19864_1320116569474_1427601383_9124.jpg My advice don't change a thing. Just end this thread. The answer to your thread is YOU CAN ATTRACT WOMEN. Other then that this is not a journal as you have not talked about a single thing you have tried Nothing new has happen so that is why I have not talked about anything I have tried.
Woggle Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 Just be yourself and in time a woman will come. The women you do want are not the ones worth having anyway. Just build yourself up and build your life up. Also don't count out black women or women of any race. The sad fact is that many white women want a stereotype and tend to reject black men who do not fit that image. What guys like you don't realize is that eventually the dating market improves for you while the men who have women crawling all over them will end up with one of these women as a wife and will become so whipped they are a shell of a man.
Green Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 Nothing new has happen so that is why I have not talked about anything I have tried. Its your job to make things happen. Go out there, tell a girl you'd like her to have lunch, dinner, or a drink or something with you. Try touching her, go in and try kissing her. Come back and give us updates/Journal entries. Attracting women is about living in the present. All I see you doing is worrying about your past and imagined future. Nothing new has happened because you haven't made it happen. If I was single I would be chatting up every attractive girl I saw... I bet in your day to day life you have seen plenty... So go chat them, up and try to ask them out, try KISSING them... just try
Author RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted May 17, 2010 Author Posted May 17, 2010 Just be yourself and in time a woman will come. The women you do want are not the ones worth having anyway. Just build yourself up and build your life up. Also don't count out black women or women of any race. The sad fact is that many white women want a stereotype and tend to reject black men who do not fit that image. What guys like you don't realize is that eventually the dating market improves for you while the men who have women crawling all over them will end up with one of these women as a wife and will become so whipped they are a shell of a man. I'm not completely counting out black women. I just don't find the majority of them attractive rather it is because of their looks. I have zero interest in Beyonce if she was to walk up to me. There are a few black women I have found attractive. I'm open to all races. If they want a ghetto sterotype then they better look elsewhere!
SilentVoice Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 I'm not completely counting out black women. I just don't find the majority of them attractive rather it is because of their looks. I have zero interest in Beyonce if she was to walk up to me. There are a few black women I have found attractive. I'm open to all races. If they want a ghetto sterotype then they better look elsewhere! sigh.......
TaurusTerp Posted May 17, 2010 Posted May 17, 2010 Please read my posts. I am working out. I cannot gain weight fast like other guys. I already said I cannot wear contacts as told by my doctor. People compliment my clothes so I will not be changing them. Any other options for me to change? Just letting you know what I think is holding you back looks-wise. Good luck on working out; don't expect fast results but they'll come. And it will help a lot. What is your issue with contacts? When were you told this? I'd advise you to get a second opinion. There are contacts for almost all situations these days; it's not like in the past when astigmatism cut you out. I think getting rid of the glasses is crucial for you. That shirt is gigantic, by the way. A polo shirt should not go past your waist that much. And it's baggy everywhere, which just emphasizes how skinny you are.
Author RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted May 17, 2010 Author Posted May 17, 2010 Just letting you know what I think is holding you back looks-wise. Good luck on working out; don't expect fast results but they'll come. And it will help a lot. What is your issue with contacts? When were you told this? I'd advise you to get a second opinion. There are contacts for almost all situations these days; it's not like in the past when astigmatism cut you out. I think getting rid of the glasses is crucial for you. That shirt is gigantic, by the way. A polo shirt should not go past your waist that much. And it's baggy everywhere, which just emphasizes how skinny you are. I was just told this when I was in high school, and recently again early this year. I didn't know my glasses were doing so much harm. Too bad I am stuck with them for life. That shirt is too big. The store owner told me I should get that size because my arms are long. LOL I should have never took his advice.
Author RATED-RKOFRANKLIN Posted May 21, 2010 Author Posted May 21, 2010 This is just a short update. I've went to the doctors a few weeks ago to get my ears checked. The doctor told me he knows the problem with my ears and would be able to fix them. Hopefully now I will be able to get insurance to cover some of the cost. I might be getting a loan to pay for the rest of the cost or all of it if the insurance will not cover it.
Green Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 This is just a short update. I've went to the doctors a few weeks ago to get my ears checked. The doctor told me he knows the problem with my ears and would be able to fix them. Hopefully now I will be able to get insurance to cover some of the cost. I might be getting a loan to pay for the rest of the cost or all of it if the insurance will not cover it. How about an update on how you asked a girl out and then kissed her. It doesn't matter if the girls say no... and if they say yes it doesn't matter if they duck or slap you when you kiss them.. YOU HAVE TO TRY. Your ears are not your problem... the sooner you stop worrying about them the sooner they won't be a problem
SilentVoice Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 This is just a short update. I've went to the doctors a few weeks ago to get my ears checked. The doctor told me he knows the problem with my ears and would be able to fix them. Hopefully now I will be able to get insurance to cover some of the cost. I might be getting a loan to pay for the rest of the cost or all of it if the insurance will not cover it. What is the problem with your ears?Is it a health problem or vanity?
Green Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 What is the problem with your ears?Is it a health problem or vanity? We know he has no problem hearing
USMCHokie Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 How about an update on how you asked a girl out and then kissed her. It doesn't matter if the girls say no... and if they say yes it doesn't matter if they duck or slap you when you kiss them.. YOU HAVE TO TRY. Your ears are not your problem... the sooner you stop worrying about them the sooner they won't be a problem +1. "Fixing" your ears isn't going to make a lick of difference...it's what's between the ears that you need to work on...
SilentVoice Posted May 21, 2010 Posted May 21, 2010 We know he has no problem hearing Is that sarcasm? Because it should be...he obviously have not heard numerous people on the this thread and many others that his ears will not make a difference .
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