britintokyo Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 Posted this in a new one as a new problem and this was buried on page 3....Big red flag just popped up: Well looks like you may have been right about strippers...Need some opinions quick! My ex came over today, she has a bf but we've remained friends and get on really well. She basically told me that the girl I'm seeing was arrested and spent 10 days in jail for having sex with some guy in a building in town one night. She told me she had been arrested but just for looking around a building with a guy, not having sex with him.... She also told me that when she was in jail, her sister had to come and look after her children and also that before she met me she was regularly out until 6am f&&&king different guys. I've got no reason to mistrust her and her information is from 3 different people including her sister. To me though she is appearing so nice, wants to spend everyday with me, no phone calls from other guys, kissing affectionate etc. She's either trying to turn over a new leaf with me or playing me. I'm not a stupid guy so think it's probably the first but I'm not sure. Thing is leopards dont change their spots and I'm feeling pretty uncomfortable now even if 50% is true. If she is trying to change with me then how long before she reverts back. Also I'm not just interested in sex but why is she f&&king some random customer after work yet with me she behaving all sweetness and light and wants to wait!?!? WTF??? Any help please....
gypsy_nicky Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 get out while your not deeply invested emotionally yet. Minimize contact.
Author britintokyo Posted May 4, 2010 Author Posted May 4, 2010 Think you may be right Talked to another friend (girl) tonight who said the info on her f&&king someone in the building and being arrested came directly from the police translator, so you can't argue with that She also said that she doesn't know about now but before she was famous for f&&king a lot of guys after work. I'm going to confront her tonight but I've pretty much decided to get out. I just feel pretty bad if she really does like me and is really trying to change. Makes me feel like a pretty big sh&t if she chose me to turn over a new leaf then I dump her.
Sith Apprentice Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 yet with me she behaving all sweetness and light and wants to wait!?!? WTF??? Any help please.... There is no such thing as a sweet and innocent stripper. You better get this AFC fantasy out of your head real quick. They are ***k and chuck material only.
dreamingoftigers Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 It could be that she has a reputation filled with rumors because she is a stripper. Sometimes people have big mouths about others. I would go to the source but be careful.
homersheineken Posted May 10, 2010 Posted May 10, 2010 What are you thinking? Give your head a shake. Mmmmhmmm right into a brick wall.
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