Thebob Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 What does this mean!??! She was like, " I woulda came up to visit you if we were still talking" Then I said, " I didn't know we were talking cause we talked about how this would never work since were 8 states away" (We were on break when we met for 4 days) Then she was like, " this is no surprise to you then that I'm not comin to visit then" So I said, " That's fine it's no biggie and I understand hope to see you sometime in the future. .... Did she think I was talking to her or something for 1.5 months when we already discussed before she left that this could never work as a relationship? Did she think after we hooked up that we were something more? I'm confused..... She was a really cool girl but it was the wrong time and place to meet since we live in completely different areas and completely different lives. Thebob
Author Thebob Posted May 4, 2010 Author Posted May 4, 2010 Anyone? I have no idea what this meant because she told me and we agreed that it would never work between us. Was she thinking more?
marsle85 Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 ... It seems like she understands perfectly. It also sounds like you wanted her to visit - aka BOOTY CALL, and she's pissed off you'd suggest it when you both have already had the "It won't work" conversation. I don't know, she seems annoyed- but she gets it.
Author Thebob Posted May 5, 2010 Author Posted May 5, 2010 unless she thought we were going to be something more than a F-Buddy over spring break, how can she expect that it would have worked in general. 15 days ago she sent me dirty texts and what not and said she was still coming up to visit. All of a suddenly she changed her mind and said that. I think shes seein someone else or she is crazy. Thebob
norajane Posted May 5, 2010 Posted May 5, 2010 I don't understand anything you just wrote, so I'd say it's the other way around. Women may not ever really understand men. Or perhaps it is your specific communication skills that are muddying any possible understanding.
Author Thebob Posted May 5, 2010 Author Posted May 5, 2010 ok, ill describe it better. - Met girl over spring break - We talked for 1.5 months after - I am from another state that is near hers and she wants to come visit - Until yesterday when she said she was too busy and she would come see if we were still talking like we used to be. This makes me think she thinks that we were dating during the 1.5 months that we were talking. And that is where I am confused if she thought that or not. Thebob
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