D-Lish Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 I just broke off my FWB relationship after a year and a half. I feel good. Really good.
Kamille Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 I didn't even know you were in a FWB but I'm glad to hear you're feeling good for breaking it off. what made you decide now was the time to put an end to it?
melodymatters Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 I echo Kamille ! Didn't have a clue, but why would you overshare on LS anyways these days If you feel better that means you listened to your gut and thats wonderful ! Me and my pup are farting out some popcorn in your honor ! LOL:lmao:
pandagirl Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 Good for you! Is this guy the guy I'm thinking of...?
skydiveaddict Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 That's a good move D . You are far too beautiful to settle for a FWB situation
Kamille Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 Me and my pup are farting out some popcorn in your honor ! LOL:lmao: Aw Melody, you're as hilarious as you're adorable!
USMCHokie Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 That's a good move D . You are far too beautiful to settle for a FWB situation +1,000,000. Beautiful and awesome.
Author D-Lish Posted May 4, 2010 Author Posted May 4, 2010 I didn't even know you were in a FWB but I'm glad to hear you're feeling good for breaking it off. what made you decide now was the time to put an end to it? I have spoken about it fleetingly here on LS for some time now. I posted about our relationship initially- a year and a half ago. He's from Ireland, on a visa. I remember my first post was about whether or not to wear flats or heels on our date because his dating profile stated he was shorter than I am. I fell so hard initially. I put an end to it because I feel really good about myself lately.
Author D-Lish Posted May 4, 2010 Author Posted May 4, 2010 Good for you! Is this guy the guy I'm thinking of...? Yes P, the one I have been PM'ing with you about;)
Tayla Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 you did it in your own time and in your own way. End result - you are at peace with it. That is validation enough that you are moving on. Good for you!
paleblue Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 the whole FWB thing just gets annoying after awhile anyway (IMHO). i say you can do better than that
Author D-Lish Posted May 4, 2010 Author Posted May 4, 2010 I echo Kamille ! Didn't have a clue, but why would you overshare on LS anyways these days If you feel better that means you listened to your gut and thats wonderful ! Me and my pup are farting out some popcorn in your honor ! LOL:lmao: I have kept it on the down low. I was embarrassed a bit.
Author D-Lish Posted May 4, 2010 Author Posted May 4, 2010 you did it in your own time and in your own way. End result - you are at peace with it. That is validation enough that you are moving on. Good for you! I did. Thanks. I lost interest about 6 months ago. I don't know why I continued dating him after this ephiphany.
pandagirl Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 I did. Thanks. I lost interest about 6 months ago. I don't know why I continued dating him after this ephiphany. what was your epiphany?
Author D-Lish Posted May 4, 2010 Author Posted May 4, 2010 I echo Kamille ! Didn't have a clue, but why would you overshare on LS anyways these days If you feel better that means you listened to your gut and thats wonderful ! Me and my pup are farting out some popcorn in your honor ! LOL:lmao: I have learned not to overshare on LS. If you have a moment of weakness..."anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law". lol.
Author D-Lish Posted May 4, 2010 Author Posted May 4, 2010 what was your epiphany? I deserved better. Plain and simple.
Author D-Lish Posted May 4, 2010 Author Posted May 4, 2010 Amen, sistah! Thanks girly- You've always been here for me:cool:
Yamaha Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 I deserved better. Plain and simple. Self confidence goes a long way in stopping something not good 4 u.
Author D-Lish Posted May 4, 2010 Author Posted May 4, 2010 Self confidence goes a long way in stopping something not good 4 u. It does Yamaha, and thanks for that observation. You always have intelligent things to say. What is crazy is that I started out really loving this guy- then he pulled away, then we met up a while later and continued on again. At some point, after me wanting him more than he wanted me, everything changed. For the past 6 months I haven't cared much because I have been so busy... like new career busy. I've talked in PM to my friends about his on here- but I just hit a point where I stopped caring about him. Now, all of a sudden, he wants more- and I don't.
Green Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 I never had a FWB... not that I would ever want one. Good for you.
pandagirl Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 I knew you were always too good for this dude, but when you feel that "connection," sometimes you just have to let things run their course. He seems like a guy who is going to wander around his entire life not ever knowing what he really wants, never committing to a job, location or relationship. Loser.
Yamaha Posted May 4, 2010 Posted May 4, 2010 Now, all of a sudden, he wants more- and I don't. Don't believe him. He had his chance and now that he realizes he has no hold over you he wants to reel you back in. Keep walking away from him and never sell yourself short than all you deserve.
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