Cantcope Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 Ok, I need answers please. I work with my ex. I'm on day 6 with STRICT NC. He spoke to me....I answered. Did I break NC? Him: "How's it going"? Me: "Good, you"? Him: "Alright" Me: "Take it easy" And I walked away. Is there a difference between being cordial and breaking NC?
anne1707 Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 NC at work is very hard. Next time maybe answer "Good thank you" but don't ask how he is. Don't ask anything that might lead to a personal answer/conversation. You talk work only.
sarabear86 Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 i wouldn't consider this as you breaking NC. i might consider it as him breaking it though...maybe there's a reason for that, or maybe he just thinks it's nice to be polite in a workplace.
Author Cantcope Posted May 3, 2010 Author Posted May 3, 2010 Thaqnks guys, and I was wondering the same thing. I was out Thursday and Friday of last week, so I felt SO good not seeing him! It brought me some clarity, although I would still love to work things out and am REALLY hoping that he misses me. We both smoke, so I see him outside sometimes and it's just the two of us. Last week he would totally walk right by me and say nothing. I unfriended him on FB 2 weeks ago, and other than work friends, we have none in common, so he has NO idea what I've been up to. We never discussed going NC, he was just ignoring me. I know it's not the right way of thinking, but I really do hope he misses me and the time we spent together. I'll be interested to see if he says more at some point, though I HAVE TO stop checking to see if he's outside and purposly taking my break at the same time!
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