Unguardiant Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 Hi, I was with my ex (guy A) for 2 years. He broke up with me in december because of a questionable decision that I made (lying to him). Even though we are not "dating" I see him almost every day and he continues to be my best friend despite some major flaws in how we interact. Things are going well between us for the most part however, and I know that he wants to re-establish a committed relationship. I, however, am not as sure. Even though it was ultimately him who broke up with me, I was unhappy with key aspects of our relationship. Long story short, I recently met another guy (guy B). He is from out of town, and I only got to know him over the period of a couple days. Regardless, he seems to be exactly what I am looking for, although I know that everyone can seem pretty great at first. My parents are very good friends with his parents (his dad was my english teacher and debate coach in high school coincidentally), and I also know his sister well, so that adds some credibilty to his character IMO. So what do I do? I will next see guy B in a little over two months. Should I see this as a choice? Or is the fact that another guy seems to be "exactly what i'm looking for' enough of an indication that guy A is not right for me? Is that too idealistic? As a side note I feel that guy A and I are incompatible sexually - we had sex only a handful of times over that 2 year span ( i know, i know, its abnormal. i simply didn't want to.) Does this show that we are just meant to be friends? How do I go about that transition in the healthiest way possible? Any insight is MUCH appreciated!!!
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