Cantcope Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 I work with my ex. It's been HARD! Today is day 6 with NC (he dumped me), so I feel great about that. Took 2 days off last week and couldn't believe how great I felt not having him right under my nose. But I just saw him.....I can't stop shaking. I hate this. If my job wasn't so great, I'd leave today!!! Words of encouragement would be so wonderful!!
ALombard Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 Wow I couldn't imagine working with my ex. How long were you two together and how close in proximity are you two when you work? As for as words of encouragment, you're doing great so far. Six days strong with NC is amazing and a lot harder then it sounds. I just broke NC a few days ago and it sucked, so DON'T DO IT. Just keep focused on work and remember you two broke up for a reason. IT WASN'T WORKING so just remember that and realize that it's time for you to move on and find another guy.
Author Cantcope Posted May 3, 2010 Author Posted May 3, 2010 We were together for a year and a half. He works on the other side of the building, so I can totally avoid him, but I find myself purposly not. I hate it. I really thought that I would have heard something by now, even a drunken text, since history has a tendency to repeat itself, but I guess he's not missing me like I thought he would.
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