dietpepsi Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 I'm a little worried about my ex, we've had a little natural disaster action recently, and I just want to make sure they and there family are ok. We've been NC a month and a half, I'm just a little worried, and feeling like sending a text, but i don't want to make the wrong move, or encroach where i shouldn't. Would it be a bad idea?
ADF Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 Don't do it. Although you don't say so in your profile, I strongly suspect you're male. So am I. And we both know the only reason men contact their ex's is to try and rekindle something. Unless you have some very specific reason to think she was swept away by a flood or blown away by a hurricane, contacting your ex will come across as a transparfent attempt to exploit this situation. It will reek of a lame excuse. She will not be impressed.
Author dietpepsi Posted May 3, 2010 Author Posted May 3, 2010 Yeah, thats the last way i would want to come off. I'm just worried. I mean, it's not like i received a text asking if i was ok, so i guess i really shouldn't be thinking about it. I suppose it's the male "I want to take care of you" mentality popping up, and i know it's not my job to do that anymore. It's just tough sometimes.
witabix Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 With full respect to ADF's reply. If your heart tells you to send a simple text asking if all is ok, then do it. What is the harm? Unless you have a pretext to 'rekindle' something of course. But then what would be the harm? If something bad has happened asking if someone is ok, because you are worried about them, is not bad. IMO.
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