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So i met an exchange student doing a 3 month stint in my college at the start of the year, the attraction was there, basically hung out/ partied/clubbed for a good 2 months. Her friends knew and she knew pretty obviously that I had a huge thing for her and she would reciprocate but not physically. We finally ended up sleeping together about 2 weeks before she was to leave and decided not to let her friends know. We hung out one last time before she left and we talked alone, didn't really decide what to take of this but to keep in contact and possibly go up and visit her in the near future. She didn't come home with me that last night because she was leaving early in the morning, she wrote to apologize later for doing so and explained why, which was understandable since she had a 4am flight.

 

 

I initially just wanted to be physical with this girl but it's started to get the better of me. I'm not sure what to take of the relationship; we have talked every 2-3 days for the past 2 weeks after she's left and she'll be graduating soon, starting a new job in a metro area close to where she lives now. On one aspect i want to be with this girl and could potentially make it work long term, but on the other hand im not sure if it's too early or premature to talk with her about where we're headed with this. There is definately attraction from both ends and not of the friend type either since we did eventually sleep together.

 

help!!

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I was a little mystified as to why you wante da relationship with a FX student until i read that she will be living close to you after graduation. Have you discussed anything about the relationship on the phone? The only thing I would suggest is if she is local to invite her out somewhere. If she is still a few weeks away from being local, tell her that you would really like to see her when she is settled.

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