befreckled Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 I decided awhile ago that I'd put a potential "maybe" into the friend box. I function best when everyone is labelled and his actions were confusing me. For history, please refer to: 1. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t223951/ 2. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t228733/ Today we went out for our usual dinners and I invariably got drunk over a bottle of wine, a bottle of sake and a beer. While we were at the pub, we started flirting and, he flirted back. We started fooling around without kissing..like testing who was more ticklish and, it was definitely mutual. I asked him at some point if he thought that he was shy and his honest answer was "yes" so, I accepted it at his POV. Usually when we drink, I draw a line but today I was just tempted find out where it would go. In the cab, things got abit steamy and, I was literally breathing into his ear at some point as he was tickling/teasing me. I decided to just give it a try and, I moved in for a kiss.... He kissed me back to my surprise. Don't ask me why i'm surprised, I just really am. We are due to travel together as friends to another country and I don't know what I should do. Do I pretend that we are friends? What the hell is the move from here? I don't know. When we were drinking, we started teasing each other with how ticklish we each were. I'm obviously more than him and, we would take turns to see how far we COULD go. Definitely flirting. Do I pretend that it's all as right as rain and blame it on the alcohol?
Green Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 If I were him I would suggest you get naked at the hotel room so I could run my hands all over your body and see if you found that ticklish. (I think I may have seen the future) hes got this thing called testosterone which should take him over soon and cause things to move foward in your relationship, he will also have this thing where he wants to label the relationship soon enough.
Author befreckled Posted May 3, 2010 Author Posted May 3, 2010 If I were him I would suggest you get naked at the hotel room so I could run my hands all over your body and see if you found that ticklish. (I think I may have seen the future) hes got this thing called testosterone which should take him over soon and cause things to move foward in your relationship, he will also have this thing where he wants to label the relationship soon enough. I dropped him off at his place, he could have asked me up but he didn't. Granted, he has the self control of a saint. I don't want things to be weird when we take that trip, can I just pretend that I was too drunk and don't really remember? At this point, I don't want things to accelerate to anything more than being friends..albeit the fact that I'm obviously still attracted to him. Is it okay not to ever bring it up? Argh.
Green Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 self control only lasts so long, this man is probably going to jump on top of you one day soon.
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