xpressyaself22 Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 I don't know if anyone can answer this question but me, but I guess maybe a little insight from people on the outside looking in could help. It's been close to 5 months since my relationship ended. It all kinda ended suddenly, we were doing great and out of nowhere he decided that he was too busy and couldn't handle a relationship, and we could be "friends" of course that just lasted until his birthday, because before things ended I planned a party for him. We talked the night of his party, and after that night, never talked again...every now and then we see each other at the gym, we make eye contact, but that's it, we don't talk at all, which is good, because I still have a lot of anger towards him for using me for his party, but I find myself always thinking about him. But it's weird, I don't think about getting back together with him, when I think about him, I think about being more successful than him, making more money than him, being in amazing shape, and just completely gorgeous, so that he can feel like an idiot for treating me the way he did. I guess my question is, will I ever stop thinking about him, do these thoughts of wanting to be better, and rub it in his face mean I'm not really over him????
You Go Girl Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 Who knows what his future holds. Maybe the most gorgeous successful woman you've ever seen. It doesn't really matter though! What does matter is that you become successful and succeed at your goals for yourself--the one person you are sure you will be around --so make sure that person who will always be around will be someone you can count on to be there for you. Be your own best friend. You'll never regret it.
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