jean-luc sisko Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 how is being dateable defined? I know it's all relative. Well everything in life is. But how dateable would you say the following person is (well, me ): - Is developing an education - Has ambition to succeed in life - Even though in a junior position in his workplace, has impressed a number of people, even higher-ups in the organisation - Does his best to treat all persons with respect - Is average looking, but is on his way to getting a six-pack lol
kdark Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 how is being dateable defined? I know it's all relative. Well everything in life is. But how dateable would you say the following person is (well, me ): - Is developing an education - Has ambition to succeed in life - Even though in a junior position in his workplace, has impressed a number of people, even higher-ups in the organisation - Does his best to treat all persons with respect - Is average looking, but is on his way to getting a six-pack lol I'd say on paper you seem pretty decent. How tall are you? And how are your social skills? Do you have a hard time finding things to do on the weekends, or do you sit at home watching Star Trek reruns?
spookie Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 I feel like all your "positives" are euphmisms for reasons you're NOT datable. AKA: - Is developing an education - didn't graduate - Has ambition to succeed in life - not successful - Even though in a junior position in his workplace, has impressed a number of people, even higher-ups in the organisation - makes a lot less than I do, and can't spell - Does his best to treat all persons with respect - "nice guy" - Is average looking, but is on his way to getting a six-pack lol - fat but worked out this week Surely there are positive things about you that are real positives. Making excuses about lacking the characteristics women are stereotyped to desire, just makes you insecure in addition to lacking those characteristics.
gypsy_nicky Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 I feel like all your "positives" are euphmisms for reasons you're NOT datable. AKA: - Is developing an education - didn't graduate - Has ambition to succeed in life - not successful - Even though in a junior position in his workplace, has impressed a number of people, even higher-ups in the organisation - makes a lot less than I do, and can't spell - Does his best to treat all persons with respect - "nice guy" - Is average looking, but is on his way to getting a six-pack lol - fat but worked out this week Surely there are positive things about you that are real positives. Making excuses about lacking the characteristics women are stereotyped to desire, just makes you insecure in addition to lacking those characteristics. your harsh. So howd you formulate your assumptions about the OP?
bayouboi Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 your harsh. So howd you formulate your assumptions about the OP? I imagine the same way most women do
norajane Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 Even though in a junior position in his workplace, has impressed a number of people, even higher-ups in the organisation - makes a lot less than I do, and can't spell Spookie, if he's a Brit, he's spelling "organisation" correctly. So you have to take that off the negatives list.
USMCHokie Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 your harsh. So howd you formulate your assumptions about the OP? The truth sometimes hurts. I'm 100% with spookie here. And the fact that OP had to ask this here just shows that he places his self-worth on what others think of him...not a particularly strong character trait in itself...
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