sagetalk Posted May 1, 2010 Posted May 1, 2010 1. All the mind/heart/personality stuff is great, but if there's no physical spark or intensity, and if you are not clearly expressing physical desire for your partner (male or female), it feels like you're dealing with a friend, not a lover. 2. It's perfectly fine and wonderful to show interest in ALL those facets of a woman. Just don't shortchange the physical aspect. 1. Precisely, which is why these men "talk to girls boobs" and do that kind of thing. No guy friend would ever do that. You're showing the girl that you want her physically. Talking to her about school, work, politics, science, religion, the weather, or whatever to see her intellect shows her that you want to be her friend. 2. In the past, I admit, I have. For my sake and the girls, I did not greatly focus on the physical. I didn't want myself or her to get too emotionally attached if we were wrong for each other. In the future, it looks like a different course is necessary for success. Finding a balance will be the key, I'm confident I can get it right.
kiss_andmakeup Posted May 1, 2010 Posted May 1, 2010 I've always had a pretty modest chest (30 or 32C) but never had issues getting male attention. They're the perfect size for my figure and with the right top and bra combo I can get some nice cleavage outta 'em. ;] Most guys I've talked to say if they're round, perky, and well-shaped, that's ideal.
Woggle Posted May 1, 2010 Posted May 1, 2010 I actually don't like fake looking boobs that are not in proportion with a woman's body. Natural looking is the best.
sagetalk Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 I've always had a pretty modest chest (30 or 32C) but never had issues getting male attention. They're the perfect size for my figure and with the right top and bra combo I can get some nice cleavage outta 'em. ;] Most guys I've talked to say if they're round, perky, and well-shaped, that's ideal. C is not modest, A is modest. C is perfect !
marsle85 Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 I've had pretty great feedback about my set- one guy said they were the perfect size, another guy said they were the best he's ever seen- You know what, I used to be self conscious about my breasts- and now I realize that's silly. I think girls worry more than they have to- my breasts look natural and feminine. Ultimately, I think that's what guys want- not some plastic figurine. I refuse to worry! Boobies are beauutiful!
D-Lish Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 C is not modest, A is modest. C is perfect ! Depends on whether or not it's a 40C or a 32C you're talking about...
fellforher Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 I've always had a pretty modest chest (30 or 32C) but never had issues getting male attention. They're the perfect size for my figure and with the right top and bra combo I can get some nice cleavage outta 'em. ;] Most guys I've talked to say if they're round, perky, and well-shaped, that's ideal. It is true at least for me. I know guys who love fakes ones and they are also players with STDs. Real breasts look so nice at so many angles..they flatten out when she is on her back and look so perfect when she is getting up out of bed and you have a side angle. I have never experienced that type of arousal with fake ones.
tincanman99 Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 My whole life I have liked athletic/fit perky cheerleader kind of women (even when I was fat). Have never been into the boob thing. Frankly, really big ones sag a lot. They do nothing for me. I am not saying I wouldnt enjoy them but I have never pursued a girl because of her chest. Sure I will look if there is cleavage out on display but if she is ugly or really obese that kills it for me.
tincanman99 Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 Oh, BTW fake ones are the worst of all. Some boob jobs are pretty good but a lot of them are pretty bad. They are usually way too round and solid. You can always tell in a bra or bikini. Natural only please even if they are small.
kiss_andmakeup Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 (edited) C is not modest, A is modest. C is perfect ! Depends on whether or not it's a 40C or a 32C you're talking about... D-lish is right, a cup size is just the size of the breast in proportion to the body (band size). So a 32C or 30C (which I wear) is probably smaller than your typical 36/38C. But since I have a really small frame (5'9 115) they are proportionate on me. A good way to put it is...they look like C's on me...but if you took them and stuck them on an average sized lady they'd look kinda tiny! And agreed that women are harder on each other than men are! Honestly I don't think most guys care that much as long as overall you looks fit and attractive. I have friends with great big breasts that can't get a decent guy to save their life, and flat-chested friends who have dated hotties. Edited May 2, 2010 by kiss_andmakeup
lino Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 I've usually found that the women who complain most about guys looking at/giving a lot of attention to a certain physical feature of theirs (be it theirs tits, ass, legs, hair, whatever) are also the ones who go out of their way to dress in a fashion that really accentuates that particular feature(s)... I reckon my best body parts are my back, quads and biceps and I like it a lot when I get attention for it, I don't complain. If a male or female is talking to me and checking something out instead of looking at my eyes I couldn't give 2 sh*ts. If you don't like the attention, dress more conservatively. Don't need to be a genius to know that! Boobies are beauutiful! They certainly are!
Author EricaH329 Posted May 3, 2010 Author Posted May 3, 2010 If you don't like the attention, dress more conservatively. Don't need to be a genius to know that! I don't believe this is always the case. I, for example, enjoy wearing tank tops. I wear tank tops that fit. They aren't too small, and they aren't baggy either. Does that matter when I go out, though? No. Basically, what i'd have to do, is wear a turtle neck all year round, and even that's not a guarantee that i'll get different results. I understand that men check women out. Great, that's fine. But when guys flock to a girl because she has big breasts, or when they decide that the face is of no concern any longer, it makes me wonder what goes on in their heads? ... actually, maybe I don't want to know
marsle85 Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 Depends on whether or not it's a 40C or a 32C you're talking about... The digit represents ribcage size and actually has no relevance to the breast size... a common misconception- I worked at Victoria's Secret forever.
BobSacamento Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 Yes Boobs do get male attention. However, for me, I terms of importance: Body > Boobs.
MrNate Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 I don't believe this is always the case. I, for example, enjoy wearing tank tops. I wear tank tops that fit. They aren't too small, and they aren't baggy either. Does that matter when I go out, though? No. Basically, what i'd have to do, is wear a turtle neck all year round, and even that's not a guarantee that i'll get different results. I understand that men check women out. Great, that's fine. But when guys flock to a girl because she has big breasts, or when they decide that the face is of no concern any longer, it makes me wonder what goes on in their heads? ... actually, maybe I don't want to know lol they don't worry about the face, as long as she's hot. Brown paper bags are useful for more than just groceries.
Author EricaH329 Posted May 3, 2010 Author Posted May 3, 2010 lol they don't worry about the face, as long as she's hot. Brown paper bags are useful for more than just groceries. I figured as much.
Kamille Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 Women are guilty of the same kind of behavior. If a guy whose really tall walks by all the women turn their heads, just like a woman with large tits turns male heads. Being a tall man can outweigh a billion different negative qualities too. It's a mixture of a mild part genetic instinct but principally pop cultures fetishization of such features. Damnit Women of the World's Union! Why doesn't anyone tell me about these rules? I didn't know I was supposed to check out all tall males that passed by. Where do you guys come up with this stuff??? Explains why so few women follow basketball. We would all get whiplash.
Alma Mobley Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 If a guy whose really tall walks by all the women turn their heads, just like a woman with large tits turns male heads. Being a tall man can outweigh a billion different negative qualities too.Damnit Women of the World's Union! Why doesn't anyone tell me about these rules? I didn't know I was supposed to check out all tall males that passed by. Where do you guys come up with this stuff??? I know -- where DO they get it? My husband is a good-looking guy. He is 6'4". He wishes this would happen!
Curious-One Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 That is so not true atleast not for me. I had a chance to date a beautiful girl who had double d's but it was a turn of for me. I am much more of an ass guys so if a girl has a nice butt i will definitely give her more attention. I dont mind a girl who has a's or b's at all.
MrNate Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 That is so not true atleast not for me. I had a chance to date a beautiful girl who had double d's but it was a turn of for me. I am much more of an ass guys so if a girl has a nice butt i will definitely give her more attention. I dont mind a girl who has a's or b's at all. This is what I'm getting at. Apparently, we are in the minority.
JustJoe Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 Big tits get my attention, until I find out that they are artificial, then it's dump city.
shadowofman Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 This one time, when I used to wait tables, a woman with very prominent breasts (ie, lots of cleavage) sat in my section with her too very young male companions (each being 12ish). When I returned with the drinks, one of the boys asked me what color his mother's eyes were. I couldn't give him an answer. I wish I could have told him how I was too busy staring at his mother's titties, but he already knew. He was laughing at me. And I was laughing on the inside.
nothappyjan Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 I have barely an A cup so i wouldnt know about male attention:) I do find it a bit rude cause theres nothing you can do about it except have surgery which every guy seems to not like anyway once they know they're fake. Theres no gym or exercise that will make them bigger so its not the same as juding a man on his 6 pack stomach. See a man would be much more likely to dismiss a woman cause of her breast size than a woman ever would over a mans build/stomach/penis size so its a tad unfair, plus you cant hide and wait for a guy to like your personality as they can see right from the beginning if you have breasts or not. I swear thats been half my trouble with men, who wants to settle for A cups for the rest of their life when they could have D cup from that other girl:mad:
JustJoe Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 Jan, big tits might get my attention, but it takes a personality to hold it. A pert set of a-cups is sometimes just what the doctor ordered, if they're attached to an interesting and loving woman.
shadowofman Posted May 3, 2010 Posted May 3, 2010 Most men don't care about breast size. The men that do tend to be immature, "Hehe, look at those knockers!" If you want attention drawn to your breasts, just wear a thin t-shirt with no bra. It's all about visibility. And I would certainly settle for an A. Wouldn't stop me from wanting or fantasizing about Bs and Cs and Ds.
Recommended Posts