redfella Posted May 1, 2010 Posted May 1, 2010 This question is for any woman out there who would like to give an honest answer to a little problem I have. I am a 31-year-old, white male who is having issues with self-confidence when it comes to women. I am having these issues primarily because of my appearance... specifically my nostrils. I have two, unusually large nostrils that seem rather noticable and unnatural (for a white guy). I don't have a pig nose or anything like that, its just that I have big nostrils. My nostrils are visible from both the head-on view and the side views (but its the head on view that really bugs me). This is not a joke, but a real problem that I am dealing with in my life. My nostrils bug me big time and they are killing my confidence. I have seen several plastic surgeons to see if I can "fix" the problem, but they all say that my nostrils look fine and that they would probably make the situation worse if they operated on them. The surgeons say that was what went wrong with Michael Jackson. He started operating on the nostrils and things got worse from there. So, basically, I just have to deal with these nostrils of mine. Ladies. I'm looking for serious feedback here. How do you ladies feel about white dudes with big nostrils? Is it a problem? Or is it not a factor? Does personality outweigh this issue (or not)? Would you date a guy with big nostrils? Or do you stay away from him? Is it a turnoff? Or a turn-on?!? I suppose I am being a bit general in this question, because a lot of factors play in here, but I'm just looking for some simple feedback. If you got anything, please share it. Thanks.
CarrieT Posted May 1, 2010 Posted May 1, 2010 Quite frankly, I don't think I have ever paid attention to a guy's nostrils, so I would say it is a total non-factor. What IS a factor is that somehow it is causing you discomfort so what WILL come across to ladies is a lack of self-confidence which is a turn-off.
skydiveaddict Posted May 1, 2010 Posted May 1, 2010 I'm not a lady, but if i had big nostrils, I would be vigilant about unsightly nasal hair
Peaceful Guy Posted May 1, 2010 Posted May 1, 2010 This question is for any woman out there who would like to give an honest answer to a little problem I have. I am a 31-year-old, white male who is having issues with self-confidence when it comes to women. I am having these issues primarily because of my appearance... specifically my nostrils. I have two, unusually large nostrils that seem rather noticable and unnatural (for a white guy). I don't have a pig nose or anything like that, its just that I have big nostrils. My nostrils are visible from both the head-on view and the side views (but its the head on view that really bugs me). well, the way you see yourself and the way others see you is VERY much a personal thing.. i mean, i can pretty much guarantee that if you're focused on your nostrils but you've never noticed that weird thing your earlobes do when you laugh you're focusing on them WAY too much! :laugh: im just kidding, you see my point though? some anorexic girls think that they're fat when they are actually dangerously skinny. not to say that you DON'T have big nostrils, because you do.. i can see them from here! really, everybody looks silly.. good looks don't come from this or that.. its a personal preference.. i can assure you its fine and that plenty of women will find you DASHING and.. MANLY.. and.. OXYGENATED.. it really really really is okay man!
Peaceful Guy Posted May 1, 2010 Posted May 1, 2010 im serious about this dude, i don't care what other people say (here.. or not..), you're fine just the way you were made! :):)
Peaceful Guy Posted May 1, 2010 Posted May 1, 2010 i can really think of a number of famous and handsome guys right now that are both white AND have big nostrils.. everyone's got a look. really, don't let it bother you! i myself have large eyebrows.. ya knoww, in japan that's considered verrray manlay.. :laugh:
aerogurl87 Posted May 1, 2010 Posted May 1, 2010 I don't like guys with ugly noses, so I'm probably biased here. But yeah, big nostrils isn't a problem as long as the structure of the nose on a whole isn't extremely ugly. Just find a girl who doesn't care about how your nose looks and go from there though.
TaraMaiden Posted May 1, 2010 Posted May 1, 2010 I'm going to be perfectly blunt here. to me, nostrils are a big issue. But it's because I am considerably shorter than most people. I'm 4'10" (I have been 4'11" at my tallest, but due to age and a spinal problem, I think I'm shrinking!) The problem is, I literally have to 'look up to people'. The issue with me, has nothing to do with size. More with.... contents. My advice to you, seriously, would be to see whether you could have some type of rhynoplasty. I'm sorry, it's not my fault. it's what it's called. But it can be done. (The second guitarist in Status Quo is called John Edwards. His nickname is rhino.....is nose is massive, and the photo doesn't do him justice...) My 'weird thing' is ears.... When a man has absolutely vast ears, I find it hard to focus on anything else.
Peaceful Guy Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 I'm going to be perfectly blunt here. to me, nostrils are a big issue. But it's because I am considerably shorter than most people. I'm 4'10" (I have been 4'11" at my tallest, but due to age and a spinal problem, I think I'm shrinking!) The problem is, I literally have to 'look up to people'. The issue with me, has nothing to do with size. More with.... contents. My advice to you, seriously, would be to see whether you could have some type of rhynoplasty. I'm sorry, it's not my fault. it's what it's called. But it can be done. (The second guitarist in Status Quo is called John Edwards. His nickname is rhino.....is nose is massive, and the photo doesn't do him justice...) My 'weird thing' is ears.... When a man has absolutely vast ears, I find it hard to focus on anything else. that is so ****ed up! get surgery bitch.. cause im tired of looking at your nose! :lmao:
Peaceful Guy Posted May 2, 2010 Posted May 2, 2010 I have seen several plastic surgeons to see if I can "fix" the problem, but they all say that my nostrils look fine and that they would probably make the situation worse if they operated on them. The surgeons say that was what went wrong with Michael Jackson. He started operating on the nostrils and things got worse from there. So, basically, I just have to deal with these nostrils of mine. so the people that make a living from altering others appearances told you you looked fine huh? take that to heart man!
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