I really like the girl that cheated on my best friend twice 5 years ago

[Kaizen]

Here is the scenario:

1. One of my best friends dated a girl 5 years ago. She cheated on him. He got back together with her. She cheated again. It was over. Both times I told him to stay way the hell away from her. I really liked her personality and body but never debated going for her since I was taken and obviously so was she.

2. Five years pass. She gets in touch with me re the fact that she has a job offer that might fit some of my friends. We talk on the phone and I tell her I am visiting her city. We decide to meet in a city close by and travel there. She arranges everything. We stay in a hotel one night. Nothing really happens except for a bit of touching. Over the next two days, things escalate, we have an absolutely amazing weekend and we have oral sex. As we are falling asleep afterwards I babble about liking her, forgetting the past and that we should take full STD tests before we have sex.

3. Last day we don't talk about it, we barely kiss and I leave. Messages are exchanged since then but we still never talk about anything sexual. I called her last night and we laughed and had a good chat but no real plans to see each other anytime soon due to logistics and schedule and she lives about a 6h flight away.

 

WHAT AM I DOING? I don't feel I did anything wrong but my friend would probably never talk to me again if he found out. I feel she has changed but I don't really know that much about her life except she is not with anybody atm.

[Kestersfiance304]

I think you should just stay away from her because not only was it your friends ex g/f but she cheated on him twice. Once a cheater always a cheater and believe me I know how it feels to be cheated on and I would be hurt if one of my friends dated 1 of the guys who cheated on me. Just think if she cheated on your friend then she would cheat on you or anyone else.

[Dexter Morgan]

Here is the scenario:

1. One of my best friends dated a girl 5 years ago. She cheated on him. He got back together with her. She cheated again.

 

wow, sounds like a helluva catch:rolleyes: I can see why you want her

 

 

WHAT AM I DOING?

 

letting the little head do the thinking for the big one.

[CarrieT]

Listen to Dexter Morgan.

 

You are just carried away with a good-looking DAMAGED person who gives good head, nothing more.

[Chrome Barracuda]

Is this post for real??!?!?WTF, your gonna loose your best friend over a piece of coochie that doesn't do anything except takes and never gives back. and when shes done with you and sleeping with some one else. you'll be left with nothing. and everyone will know how you screwed over your homie over a chick who screwed you over.

 

Tigers cannot change their stripes!!!

 

FIND SOME ONE ELSE!

[Woggle]

I know this saying is misogynistic but bros before hos should apply in this case. Don't betray a friend over a cheater.

[Green]

I seriously lose all sexual interest in hos my friends have slept with. I wouldn't have any interest in this girl even if my friend had not been with her.