gerkel Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 So, here is my story, me and my ex of 2 years broke up tuesday night, mind you she did the breaking, and I have been a good boy and doing the NC thing. So what made it so strange, she kept on wanting to talk about it, now i am 38 and she is 34 and i have been broken up with more then i would like to remember, yet usally it was like a 5 min thing you know, "here is your stuff, i dont want to see you anymore". But everytime i tried to leave she stopped me,we talked for over an hour, and one this she said at the beginning was dont try and talk me out of it, it will just upset her, well what the hell did she think i was going to talk about, the weather? of course she gave me every excuse on why she was breaking it up with me so i will not go into detail, but a few things she did say kind of threw me, first she told me i just didnt fit in with her friends, yet she also said everyone the we both know loves me...she just wast attrached to me, yet pretty much up to that time, our sex life was great, infact we where more active the last month or so then we where in the pervious months. Oh before i forget, this is our seond break up, the last one lasted maybe a month, and in that time she deleted me from her myspace and facebook friends, like that day, and yet here we are 4 days into this one, and i am still on them, and i know she has been on because she is a facebook freak. SO who know what is going on, god knows i dont, but you know i am good with it, taking all the steps to move on, just would like to know if anyone else has had this type of break up.
Author gerkel Posted May 7, 2010 Author Posted May 7, 2010 So, i did the deleting form the facebook and all that, and so she texts me the other day saying i was right, that the grass isnt always greener on the other side, that she went out with the guy she said she was falling for, the same guy she left me for, and there was no contection....lol, so i asked why she felt like she had to tell me this, and she said to "boost my ego" , i swear i am sooooo over this high school BS,
northstar1 Posted May 7, 2010 Posted May 7, 2010 She sounds immature my friend. esp for 34. What is her prior relationship experience like? You are doing all the right things here I think.
Author gerkel Posted May 7, 2010 Author Posted May 7, 2010 (edited) not very good from what she tells me, am not to sure tho, she said soamething about wanting the bad boy she use to go for, and yet all those relationships got her where she was broke or strung out on drugs and her losing everything, i guess i will just wait and see what happens. Edited May 7, 2010 by gerkel
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