ohme_ohmy Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 I should start by saying I'm currently teaching in a foreign country where there is a big foreign teaching population. I met this incredible guy at a party about 2 months ago and he had just arrived here. We talked and exchanged information and he ended up coming home with me but we just slept. Nothing happened. A couple weekends later he came with me and my friends to a festival/weekend trip and we had a blast. Again we shared a bed, and nothing happened. The following weekend, I ran into him at the same bar and we danced, flirted, etc. He ended up coming home with me that night (we were both pretty intoxicated) and we slept together. After that, he continued to contact me and show signs of interest in meeting up again (which I took as a good sign) to get together. However plans kept falling through - I was too busy, he was too busy, or events we were supposed to go to together got cancelled. This happened for an entire month. I finally just took it as a sign that he wasn't interested enough and gave up on him altogether, only to have him call me last weekend. Again, we didn't end up seeing each other and so I took some initiative and called him to get together for drinks on a weeknight. He agreed to meet up the next day and I thought we really hit it off. We talked for 2 hours, flirted, laughed, etc. We talked about our travels, our families, etc. He paid for my drinks which was really nice. He seems like such a great guy, and I really don't believe he's trying to play me or use me. I hugged him goodbye and casually mentioned maybe I'd see him on Sunday (at a huge group event we both are going to) and that was that. I'm not really sure what's going on or what his deal is. I feel like I've made it pretty clear that I am interested by inviting him to things, and initiating a "date" to get together. If he doesn't contact me this weekend, a) should I contact him? and b) does it mean he just isn't interested? c) should I just be patient? I don't want to waste my time on someone who isn't interested in me....
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