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we're in different continents. we've been friends for years. he was sent in town for business, we had the opportunity to spend time together. we had so much fun. he suggested we meet in middle ground, some months later, we did. we grew even closer during the months. sure some things happened at the trip but all in all, we each developed more feelings for each other.

 

right now. i do not see a future together yet. but i would like to think this is going somewhere. he is saying he's not over his ex yet (broke up 8 months ago from a 4 yr relationship). he do not want to keep me hanging. i wanted to call it quits but he keeps contacting me saying he's got mixed emotions that he's never felt before.,

 

i am confused, on one hand, i want to move on, all seems difficult. on the other hand, i'm also hoping keeping in contact and see how it's gonna go.

 

not sure what to do. suggestions?

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Nothing seems to be clear and constant.

 

I would cut ties so I could move on -- not out of ill will; more of a "better a little pain now than a lot later" kind of a thing.

 

As far as revisiting it later, whether it can happen or not is a matter of time, maybe.

Edited by deux ex machina
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