lover123 Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 So recently my GF went to a library and met another guy there and exchanged emails and he has been instant messeging her constantly. She always responds and YES, he knows that she has a boyfriend(ME) . She has been constantly lying about this guy and has tried to cover him up. I confronted her about this and we got into a huge argument what should i do? I have zero trust in her
jnj express Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 Need more info. How long have you been together----how tight is your relationship----Is she immature, and just likes to play around??????---can't help you unless there is more to go on---give us the whole situation----why would she even want to meet new guys, if she was committed to you?????
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 She is fighting against you to keep another guy in her life that she has been struggling to keep for a while by lying and hiding him so she could keep him around. Wouldn't you rather be with someone who would fight for you instead? In your place, I'd dump her cold no questions or discussion about it. Let the other guy "win" himself a cheating girlfriend. What do you get? Freedom to date better women, and the satisfaction of knowing that the other guy is going to end up with your cheating leftovers.
JustJoe Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 Dump her, now!! She's no longer your GF, she's your opponent.
Green Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 If you've only been dating her for a short time I would just dump her and site this as the reason. At a minimum she is having an emotional afair and lying to you about it if everything you say is accurate. If you don't live with her and have dating only a few months I would just dump her.
Reality Drip Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 You have zero trust in her because she's shady. You want her MORE because it seems like the chances you can keep her are LESS. Turn the tables by walking away. Tell her to take some time on her own to figure things out and have some fun of your own. There are too many women on the planet to fuss over a girl that gives away her contact information to a stranger in public. Let's be honest...we all know why a guy would be asking to get in touch with her and it ain't to discuss books from the library. -Max
charasbb Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 I had a similar experience with my latest ex. A girl at his work started hanging out with him a lot, contacting him all the time and yes, it turns out he was cheating. This does not mean she is, but if she knows this relationship with the other guy is making you uncomfortable and still keeps doing it, she's sending out the message that she doesn't really respect you or your feelings that much. Regardless of whether she's cheating or not, she should respect how you feel about this situation and either make you somehow more comfortable with it or cut out this guy out completely.If she can't do one of those for you, you should think about whether this is someone you want to be with or not. Why waste your time with someone who disregards your feelings.
samspade Posted May 26, 2010 Posted May 26, 2010 Dump her now. If she's not cheating yet, she's on her way. Bottom line is she is disrespecting you - your relationship is on the backslide. Bail!
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