Phantom9309 Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 So, I've been a little down and insecure because I've been allowing myself to over think about this girl I met earlier this month on match. Things are at a weird time because she is actually busy with her last week of grad school. blah blah blah Anyways, today (3 days after the over thinking started) I was able to say to myself, "C'est la vie." And pretty much ended up getting two numbers while at the library. Wrote a couple of new emails to use in my copy and paste arsenal for online dating. Needless to say, I'm feeling much better. Now, I'm sitting here thinking about why I'm happy and I think it's because I like the pursuing part. I like the other stuff too. But I do remember something that someone once told me about women. "Learn to enjoy being around women in a non-sexual way, so when you do decide to become sexual, it's that much easier." Anyways, thinking about the fun of pursing a lady plus that comment has inspired this post.
sagetalk Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 One tip on enjoying the chase is to go at her pace, don't ever get ahead of her in developing feelings and expressing them. If you do, you're in huge trouble. Keep it steady, and watch for her signals.
Author Phantom9309 Posted April 30, 2010 Author Posted April 30, 2010 One tip on enjoying the chase is to go at her pace, don't ever get ahead of her in developing feelings and expressing them. If you do, you're in huge trouble. Keep it steady, and watch for her signals. Your words, fit your name.
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