emely Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 Hi everyone hope you're good! I have a question, mainly directed to men/guys but female answers are good as well for a varied discussion.. How do guys act when they're in a really good relationship? I mean if you have been together quiet a while and you wanna marry the girl, what's your thoughts and behaviors? Are there things you think you can or can't do comparing to a not so serious relationship?? Hope you get what I mean?? thanks!
Eeyore79 Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 I don't think there are any indicators that a guy wants to marry you. If you're not arguing too much and your sex life is going ok, that's a good start. Having said that... my ex seemed so dispassionate and boring, we rarely did stuff together, our sex life sucked, and I broke up with him. Right as I dumped him, he said "But I was going to marry you!" So I guess you can never tell what a guy is thinking.
Author emely Posted April 30, 2010 Author Posted April 30, 2010 hmm yeah i guess, that's what confuses me abit, was in a relationship before this where I knew it wouldn't lead anywhere, I broke up and the guy said basically the same "I wanted to marry you", so what makes you guys want to stay with a girl??
Kaplan Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 "But I was going to marry you!" That has to be just something that guys say when you brake up with them to make you feel bad. Why would you even say that if that was the truth. Are you expecting her to say, "Oh really? Well then never mind. Let's get married." I mean if your feelings are so different that your trying to get married and she's trying to move on, you should be embarrassed and lie about it and say, "Pfft! Whatever. I don't want to date you anyway."
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