White Flower Posted May 8, 2010 Posted May 8, 2010 I had such a great time today!!! We should have stayed NC, I finally replied to him thanking him for saying what he said to me. So all morning I was thinking about him, hoping to hear from him. Sure enough, my thoughts ran to the unthinkable....a future. That's why I can't be around him anymore. I have "hope" & then he rips it right out every time. So that stupid note was "hope" again. I did not share one feeling, he did. Nothing huge, but enough to let me know he missed me? I HIGHLY recommend a new hobby!! I'm going to take classes & get what I need to enjoy this. I'm really excited, I haven't had something to look forward to in a long time. I've just been a slave to my phone for years & his life & his happiness & walking on eggshells. That & a slave to my H, kids, our parents for 20 years. This thing that I did today needs my phone turned off!!! For hours!!! Plus it was an absolute blast!!I understand about the phone slave thing. I won't miss that part at all!
Dexter Morgan Posted May 8, 2010 Posted May 8, 2010 No. No apology letter. It won't be received well. while I tend to agree, since the person writing the letter has done enough already, it wasn't really my case. Even though I know my OM's face to face apology wasn't sincere, after he told me he was sorry I cut him off and said, "no no no, don't be sorry...i want to take you out for a beer to thank you for taking her off my hands. her fickle cheating ass is your problem now, I'm free from it" you should have seen the dumbfounded look on his face. funny thing is, like it took me saying that for it to sink in they she is a cheater.....as if he didn't figure that out since he was one that she was cheating with. word had it after I said that to him he chewed her out for hours for being a cheater...LMFAO. uh...ok
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