secretlife Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 I "ran into" a old childhood friend/classmate/first kiss online. We are both married and have not seen or spoken to each other in over 25 years. He is into cyber sex and I find this intriging. Part of me wants to play along and another part of me wants a face to face thing and the rational part of me says run, far far away. I cannot get this out of my head and really needed to talk about it before I explode.
Sazerac Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 Listen to your rational side. Anything else will trip you up big time. It's not worth throwing the life you've built for yourself away.
Bryanp Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 How would you feel if your husband was contemplating doing the same thing with another woman?
SavannahSmiles Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 Listen to your rational side. If only we all did this. There would be crickets chirping on ls. That would be a good thing!
Dexter Morgan Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 I "ran into" a old childhood friend/classmate/first kiss online. We are both married and have not seen or spoken to each other in over 25 years. He is into cyber sex and I find this intriging. Part of me wants to play along and another part of me wants a face to face thing and the rational part of me says run, far far away. I cannot get this out of my head and really needed to talk about it before I explode. tell your husband you want this other guy to penetrate you. Maybe your H will be able to get those ideas out of your head if you suffer the consequences of obsessing over wanting to have sex with this guy. why are you even married if this is the way you are?
GrayClouds Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 (edited) feeling are not controllable but how you choose to respond to those feelings are. Edited April 30, 2010 by GrayClouds
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