JustWantAHug Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 i was in a fabulous relationship with a guy for a few years. He broke up with me 6 months ago. However, he still texts me a few times a week that he misses me and loves me. I of course love him very much. how ridiculous am i that i still cry nearly every day over him. How ridiculous is it that we still say i love you and miss you but he REFUSES to work on things together with me. It doesnt help that he lives 2 blocks from me... Im devastated. I wish i could pick up my life and move it across the globe and un-memorize his phone number and change mine and his email address and everything. It is so so so hard to go no contact. I must be nuts. im 25, i should be a more respectful to myself than this
GrayClouds Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 i was in a fabulous relationship with a guy for a few years. He broke up with me 6 months ago. However, he still texts me a few times a week that he misses me and loves me. I of course love him very much. how ridiculous am i that i still cry nearly every day over him. How ridiculous is it that we still say i love you and miss you but he REFUSES to work on things together with me. It doesnt help that he lives 2 blocks from me... Im devastated. I wish i could pick up my life and move it across the globe and un-memorize his phone number and change mine and his email address and everything. It is so so so hard to go no contact. I must be nuts. im 25, i should be a more respectful to myself than this While he is not helping, which is completely disrespectful to you, there is a reason you are not letting go. Somewhere you got the idea that love is hard and painful. Where do you think you got this idea? Try picking up this book: The Journey from Abandonment to Healing by Susan Anderson. It may help you let go of this and help you even more in the future.
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