shygal1 Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 Long story short, my ex bf came back after two years of silence. Said he made a big mistake and I was his biggest regret. He came back saying he had a lot to make up to me. For 3 months he has showed me he has not changed much. We bicker and argue and he does not communicate well. I deleted him on facebook due to a misunderstanding i thought he was online dating. he said it was before me, so he deleted it and I forgave him.. I didn't add him back because i don't like the facebook drama. Well yesterday i randomly looked on his page and saw his main picture with a girl he used to have sex with. I texted him in anger and was very upset. He told me she is a friend and coworker. He has very few pictures on his page and it just looked off. Maybe he wanted a reaction out of me. I expressed me feelings poorly because of the anger, but i did say him going out with her made me uncomfortable and that he should respect my feelings. He replied his friends are his friends if i dont like him chillen with them then we shouldn't talk. After he claims he loves me more than anything. He told me to take care. I overreacted if i dont like it to bad. He's not playing my games. I then said to him ok bye, and he said bye, and we have had no contact so far for one day. What should i do, I loved him for ever and i waited 2 yrs for him to come to his senses. To give up what we have over some slut girl he slept with is insane.
wanjirum Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 Were you totally NC (no contact) for the two years? Do you still love him? I would recommend a calm conversation with him and each of you airing the issues and you considering if this is what you really want.
stillafool Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 OP I think you already know what you are going to do. Good luck.
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 For 3 months he has showed me he has not changed much. We bicker and argue and he does not communicate well. What should i do, I loved him for ever and i waited 2 yrs for him to come to his senses. To give up what we have over some slut girl he slept with is insane. You won't be giving up what you have over some 'slut girl'. You will be giving it up because he hasn't changed in two years. I know you waited two years, but look at it this way: you put your life on hold for him waiting two years while he left you in silence and lived his life as he pleased. He clearly didn't learn anything in those two years. Did you?
EthanH Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 you waited for 2 years and yet you couldn't just speak to him about things? You need to be able to communicate in a relationship, not how old you both are, but you are behaving like a couple of irritable kids...if he is that important, why let a pretty petty situation undermine everything? Stop playing games
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