Mixin6 Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 So I dated this girl briefly almost 5 years ago. It was very intense but short. In the end, she left the state to go back to an ex. No big deal. From that point until now, there's been no contact on my part. However, she's asked about me, called me (hung up on me) etc. So now she's emailing my friend on Facebook telling him repeatedly that she's coming back into town to visit and how he should get some people together so that they could all go and get a drink. I know what this is. She wants me to go but she doesn't want to make it look like she's chasing me. I don't even know if I want to go. I haven't been officially invited nor am I going to invite myself or make suggestions to my friend. The breakup was bad. She yelled at me like I was a little boy and I was never able to get any closure. I'm over it but I kinda get the feeling if I don't go out when she comes into town, I'll regret it later. It's been close to 5 years since I've seen her. Part of me thinks she's reaching because she's 35 and never been married. I know she wants to get married and have kids. What's her angle? How should I act if I go?
lvixen Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 Her asking your friend to get a group of pals together for some drinks could be completely innocent. Until she asks you yourself to see her you don't really know for sure WHAT her angle is. It's hard to say. You said it was a bad breakup and that you're over it. But are you completely over her? If you are then go ahead and "let" your pal "invite" you for some drinks with her. Otherwise stay the hell away from her. That's all that I can offer in regards to advice. I hope it helped
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