Phantom9309 Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 If you'd like more back story please go to my previous thread. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t229489/ Met this girl on match earlier this month and we've talked a good bit. Not every day but sometimes we'd have a few consecutive days of contact. We've gone on two dates that seem to have gone well. Hugs but no kiss. I felt like there were no signs during the dates that would warrant a kiss. However, I was planning on making the move on the 3rd date no matter what. So I got turned down for a lunch date (3rd date) and her reason was school work. I feel that it's a very legitimate reason because she's graduating from Grad school next week and has a paper and her thesis due. Basically, I texted her Monday night during her class to ask when would be a good time to call her. She ended up calling me back after class, and that's when I asked her out to lunch. I did get a thank you for trying to set something up closer to where she lives, which is about 25mins away. Chatted a little longer but ended conversation shortly after. Tuesday, I decided to give her a random text during the day while I was having a serious case of study over dose. Didn't get a reply which I didn't really mind. However, I did send a text 5 hours later after an exam that I totally rocked. Was semi hoping for a reply and still have yet to receive one. I know that giving her space right now is the best thing I can do. I feel that her calling me back Monday night is a good sign and that I'm most likely over reacting with the no replies to my two texts yesterday. I know she's still checking her match and well that's basically why I'm still answering other girl's emails. Anyways, do you think I'm done for? Also I plan on calling her Sunday but a little unsure how I should approach it. Should I say something like, ""Hey! I know we haven't talked in a little while but I knew you needed some time to finish your school work. Hope everything is going well." or Should I say something like, "Hey! I haven't called in awhile because I knew you needed space. Sorry if I was coming on a little strong there. Well, let me clarify, I'm not sorry for liking you, but just sorry that I let it impede on my intuition." Suggestions?
Author Phantom9309 Posted April 28, 2010 Author Posted April 28, 2010 Would be nice if someone just own my insecurity with words.
DustySaltus Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 I think that you need to give it a week and let her come back to you. She knows that your interested and you will find out soon enough whether or not her studying reason is valid or not. If she doesn't respond to you in the week after school is out I think it's safe to say she has moved on. I think you've done all you can at this point.
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