just-me12 Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 as the heading says, anyways i texted someone i had been kinda seeing yesterday and didnt get a reply so messaged him tonight and i got a reply pretty much straight up it said "Im so so sorry, I'm just so bloody busy atm, i wouldnt be able to give you my full attention, when things get quite i will organise something. Promise. p.s. dont go by what i right on facebook all lies, tell ya about it when i see ya" do you think i should stay with my feelings for him or just move on. If so how long should I wait? im thinking a week or so. The stuff on his facebook didnt seem to bother me anyway.
TaraMaiden Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 And you're putting your life on hold for....what? He's posting stuff on FB that he tells you is all lies? Has he told anybody else this? if they're lies why post them? is his ego so small that it needs packing on and holding up? He's actually admitting to you he's a liar, and that he expects you to hang around a bit while he gets some stuff sorted, because he doesn't have time for you right now? My partner and I lead rather full lives, what with my work, his studies our family issues... always make priority time for each other. You'd think he'd have time to fit you into his busy schedule, wouldn't you? You're obviously not his priority right now, so just wait a while until he's ready, then he'll pay you all the attention you want. And in the meantime, tell another girl that whatever he posts, is a lie..... and that he'll get right back to her..... yech.
Author just-me12 Posted April 28, 2010 Author Posted April 28, 2010 we have only knwn each other for about 5-6 weeks and only been on a few dates. I thought it was his way of shutting me down but he has said it twice in the last week. plus he is in army resevs and has his own bussiness
Author just-me12 Posted April 28, 2010 Author Posted April 28, 2010 atm in australia it is anzac and that where we pay respect to the troops so i know they are really busy i have mates in it
TaraMaiden Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 Ok, what do you want exactly? You know, I'm sorry, but this really irritates the crap out of me. You get people coming on asking about certain issues, and help with solving problems, and then the minute you contribute a possible solution, they start defending the very thing they come on to ask about. My focus is on the fact that he's a self-admitting liar. My focus is on the fact that we all have busy lives, but we don't ask people to take a back seat and hang around until we're ready for them. My focus is on the fact that as far as he's concerned, you're not a priority, but hang around and you might get lucky. The amount of complaints people have about FB is staggering. But FB isn't the problem. The people ON FB are the problem. And if he's posting lies on FB - he's a problem.
123BeachFan Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 Give him up and move on. If you hear from him and he's organized another date, that's great, and can decide at that point if you'd like to accept his date offer. And whatever you do, don't text him again!!!
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