Opheliasflowers Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 I asked my boyfriend if he liked me as much as he used to and he replied by saying he'd call. When he didn't call within a time frame that I thought was reasonable (ie within that day) I told him I thought I had my answer. He didn't answer. I had to call him, we work together and I didn't want things to remain so unspoken. He barely had anything to say, except that we were different but he had been happy and had thought I wasn't. He had no objections to breaking up though. I've texted him since which he didn't reply, and I got angry about it. I apologised for that in a voicemail and still he hasn't called. He has always been very tight lipped about his feelings and thoughts. Is it likely that he is punishing me or just really not into me. I don't know how to handle returning some of his belongings. Could someone please impart their wisdom, asap, before I make a fool of myself over him or push him away further?? I still have feelings for him.
TaraMaiden Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 You have to let this go. he's breaking up with you and hoping you get the hint, because he's too spineless to actually come out with it definitively. If you pursue him, you will make a fool of yourself. He needs no further pushing. he's jumped this train and is long gone, emotionally. of course you still have feelings for him. but he's behaving like a jerk. And he deserves a lot less than your considerate nature is giving him. He's a coward and a loser. And I wouldn't be too surprised if I were you, if there's another pretty something hiding in the wings, right now.
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