jjhart Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 Its been six months, been doin great, last few weeks, brought it all back. How do you deal with the aftershocks? I mean, seriously, yeah she tore a hole in me, pretty bad, worse than ever before. but its been six months. I did it to myself, i looked at her FB page. thought i would be ok. Seriously thought i coudl deal with it, but i couldnt, mind races now again. Remembering again how much i loved her, stomach drops again now at the thought of her with someone else. New girl in my life, and i feel like i am not giving her a chance because of this. Self inflicted, stupid i know. I think i still love her.
Chochobong Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 - Continue NC - Block her on FaceBook - Remove any other temptations - Focus on the bad times with the EX and her bad qualities - Do what was originally working for you before this "aftershock" occurred
dreamer0123 Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 Its been six months, been doin great, last few weeks, brought it all back. How do you deal with the aftershocks? I mean, seriously, yeah she tore a hole in me, pretty bad, worse than ever before. but its been six months. I did it to myself, i looked at her FB page. thought i would be ok. Seriously thought i coudl deal with it, but i couldnt, mind races now again. Remembering again how much i loved her, stomach drops again now at the thought of her with someone else. New girl in my life, and i feel like i am not giving her a chance because of this. Self inflicted, stupid i know. I think i still love her. I'm in the same boat as you!! It's been six months- and I've had these aftershocks for the last couple weeks-I think it has to do with his birthday just passing......
Author jjhart Posted April 29, 2010 Author Posted April 29, 2010 I'm in the same boat as you!! It's been six months- and I've had these aftershocks for the last couple weeks-I think it has to do with his birthday just passing...... yeah, her birthday is next week. I blocked her on facebook yesterday. I cant handle this stuff, dont know why i thought i could. Remembering the bad stuff in the relationship, not being a part of her life, etc. Shouldnt have been that hard during the relationship. Its not supposed to work that way, not supposed to be that difficult. Alot of people out there need to remember that, i think, including me.
D-Lish Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 Yeah, I think you do still love her. She couldn't have this sort of impact on you otherwise:( You really can't look at her facebook account- ever. Honestly, 6 months really isn't a long time. Be pro-active in your recovery. Looking at her facebook brought about this latest setback. You know from this mistake that looking at it is a bad idea. Are you being honest with the new girl about where your head is at? Rebound dating is a good way for you to get over someone, but it's not fair to the girl you are dating.
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