Mixin6 Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 So I dated this girl briefly almost 5 years ago. It was very intense but short. In the end, she left the state to go back to an ex. No big deal. From that point until now, there's been no contact on my part. However, she's asked about me, called me (hung up on me) etc. So now she's emailing my friend on Facebook telling him repeatedly that she's coming back into town to visit and how he should get some people together so that they could all go and get a drink. I know what this is. She wants me to go but she doesn't want to make it look like she's chasing me. I don't even know if I want to go. I haven't been officially invited nor am I going to invite myself or make suggestions to my friend. The breakup was bad. She yelled at me like I was a little boy and I was never able to get any closure. I'm over it but I kinda get the feeling if I don't go out when she comes into town, I'll regret it later. It's been close to 5 years since I've seen her. Part of me thinks she's reaching because she's 35 and never been married. I know she wants to get married and have kids. What's her angle? How should I act if I go?
Perhaps Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 So I dated this girl briefly almost 5 years ago. It was very intense but short. In the end, she left the state to go back to an ex. No big deal. From that point until now, there's been no contact on my part. However, she's asked about me, called me (hung up on me) etc. So now she's emailing my friend on Facebook telling him repeatedly that she's coming back into town to visit and how he should get some people together so that they could all go and get a drink. I know what this is. She wants me to go but she doesn't want to make it look like she's chasing me. I don't even know if I want to go. I haven't been officially invited nor am I going to invite myself or make suggestions to my friend. The breakup was bad. She yelled at me like I was a little boy and I was never able to get any closure. I'm over it but I kinda get the feeling if I don't go out when she comes into town, I'll regret it later. It's been close to 5 years since I've seen her. Part of me thinks she's reaching because she's 35 and never been married. I know she wants to get married and have kids. What's her angle? How should I act if I go? i would personally advise you to not go... just cause it may possibly stir up something bad. why would you wanna see her anyway? she left you form an ex. let her feel lonely. i think it's pretty immature for someone her age to constantly message your friend hoping to grab your attention. if you want to go, do it but don't bother striking up a conversation. if she talks, smile and be brief. but seriously, why bother with it at all.
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