sophiedonot Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 i met a guy a month ago in a bar. he obviously liked me, but he is the complete oposite of me, in the way of thinking, opinions, interests etc., and as i've never met a guy i couldnt crack after one conversation, i was intriqued and started flirting. nothing happenned that night, except for some flirting and plesent conversation. becouse of many obsticles, we only met a month after in a party where i got terribly drunk, now i know that playing drinking games are a bad idea.., and we had sex, i remember it only very vaguely... the next morning, while making out he told me that he hopes that i wouldnt be taking it seriously!! and that he didnt want to break my heart!!!(the laimest thing i've ever heard..) and i didnt care, i was having a plesent time with him, that's all. i dont like him that much, i dont whant to be his girlfriend (i dont want to be anyones girlfriend to be honest), but i dont whant him to think he could get me whenever he wants., though i still whant to meet him, of course not to sleep with him, that was a huuge mistake, but to just spend some more time together just making out. so what to do????? if he calls- not answer?? i'm just at a loss of what to do.... help!
Kamille Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 so what is it that you want exactly? To hang out with him? Get to know him some more. Then, if he calls, pick up the phone. But, don't expect much of anything. I've had a ONS and I went in knowing it would likely not lead anywhere, not even to friendship. The guy approached me months later to try and have a repeat. I wasn't into it that time and that was that. I think the best attitude you can adopt right now is that: you had fun, you'd be into getting him more but... so far, it isn't anything serious for you either. After all, you hardly know the guy. Now continue living your fantastic life and don't dwell on this guy. Keep your options open.
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