to date or not to?

[jack87]

I do not know if I should date a girl or not. My mother has told me sence I was 14 I should not have a girl friend untill I finish school. But I am a adult, my own person at 21 years of age and a few years away from finishing school. I have never had a girl friend. I like girls, I see a lot of girls at school but I am scared my mother would get mad if I started to date a girl. I feel lonely without a girl friend, most everyone I know have girlfriends. Even my friends little brothers at ages of 17 or less have girl friends. I have no clue if I could even date a girl.... I am not like fat or overweight but so many years of being told no, no no. I feel like its abuse. I do not know if it is even worth me dating, which leads to marriage and I have no clue if I could even last a year at marriage. I have been told no for many of years and you going through puberty, always woundering about girls, I just feel like a monster, a sex crazy person? I watch tv and most of the shows are like, men's minds are always on sex (true here lol) and men always want it more than women. I doubt a women would marry such a sex crazy man. I feel like if I even got married, it would fall a part fast because I would want sex so much and be crazy for my wife. I feel so unwanted by my mother and lonely, I got some friends but they are guys, I want a girl friend.

[Knittress]

I personally think you should learn to be an independent adult and figure out your own life before you start complicating things by involving other people.