Dblock10 Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 As an update, I sent her a message the next day after the blowout apologizing if any of what happened was my fault. She finally got back to me today: "Don't feel bad...you didn't do anything wrong! This has been a problem that Mark has had for a long time....he is a very very jealous person and if he thinks he heard something the wrong way he will take it to another level that isn't needed. I left him and said some things that weren't very nice but needed to be said....Mark is a 27 year old man that does not take on the responsibilities that a 27 year old should and I let him know how I felt about it. Everyone even his parents agree with me too. So he said he was going to fix it and take on his responsibilities but I wont believe him till he does." So apparently she dropped him. I told her we all still want her to come around and hang out with us regardless of the situation. I guess we'll see what happens! you told her we all as in us on LS? lol. anyway, she is clearly wanting him to change and is waiting. she said she wont believe him, that's not the same as i hope he changes for himself and we are better not together etc
Author Engadget Posted April 29, 2010 Author Posted April 29, 2010 you told her we all as in us on LS? lol. anyway, she is clearly wanting him to change and is waiting. she said she wont believe him, that's not the same as i hope he changes for himself and we are better not together etc No not LS! The group and me that hangs out with her and were with her that night.
dazzle22 Posted April 30, 2010 Posted April 30, 2010 A couple of observations: -it would trouble me that she picked him in the first place, given his anger issues. A couple of things in her post makes me think she is a bit co-dependent and might like being with someone she can 'fix', but then, many of us women are, :laugh:but just an observation.. -she also is a bit immature to be all over you in a bar when she has a BF, but eh? whatever. Most people are immature in their 20's. (I am assuming from the behavior, you all are in your 20's. haha) -different take: why do you care at all what HE thinks? He sounds like a total jerkoff and sounds doubtful that he's going to be your BFF so who cares if you date his ex.? I might not want to get involved because I wouldn't want my knee caps broken, but other than that,I wouldn't think twice about trying to take someone I wanted from a guy like that. Unless they were engaged or married. But just GF/BF...still on the 'open market' in my opinion..
Author Engadget Posted April 30, 2010 Author Posted April 30, 2010 A couple of observations: -it would trouble me that she picked him in the first place, given his anger issues. A couple of things in her post makes me think she is a bit co-dependent and might like being with someone she can 'fix', but then, many of us women are, :laugh:but just an observation.. -she also is a bit immature to be all over you in a bar when she has a BF, but eh? whatever. Most people are immature in their 20's. (I am assuming from the behavior, you all are in your 20's. haha) -different take: why do you care at all what HE thinks? He sounds like a total jerkoff and sounds doubtful that he's going to be your BFF so who cares if you date his ex.? I might not want to get involved because I wouldn't want my knee caps broken, but other than that,I wouldn't think twice about trying to take someone I wanted from a guy like that. Unless they were engaged or married. But just GF/BF...still on the 'open market' in my opinion.. Eh it's a guy thing. He's my friend's brother, and to date a girl that just left him would be kind of a violation. However we'll see how it goes.
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