LostInLimbo Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 I have been using posting on LS for a lil while now and Have also been given alot of great advice, it was me who unfortunatly didn't follow some of it, which led me to some of my nightmare. If you remember, I came from a terrible relationship, was dumped 4 times by the same girl, in 4yrs, she cheated on me twice and I still took her back, since the last breakup, when she walked out on me, in Jan 2010, I never ever thought I was going to let go or be able to let go, as some of my posts may suggest as she had always come running back to me, after treating me like crap. I have to say this, which maybe the wrong forum, but hopefully it may help others who are in the same postion I was in which is why I posted it here... DON'T GIVE UP!, when you think its never going to end, as I did, the depression, the not wanting to do anything, talk to know one, that empty space sitting in your stomach.... I tried to date to get over that feeling, it didn't help me, but here is the light at the end of that tunnel, for all feeling depressed.. YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE! I never thought ever I would find someone to replace that Misery I had, but in a positive way, well I HAVE! I met someone and it just CLICKED! week into it, I sat around after a bit and thought NOTHING for the Ex except the fact of HOW THE F@@K DID I EVER DEAL WITH AND PUT UP WITH WHAT I DID. for SO LONG!!! I GOT WHAT I DESERVED SOMEONE WHO TREATS ME AS I TREAT THEM!!!..It was like a HUGE SENSE of relief... I am not saying its going to be perfect, not saying I won't be back here (I Hope Only as an Answerer) but I am going to ENJOY it and BE HAPPY and take each Day at a Time.... Sorry to have posted a long message and this was in no way to rub in ppls face, because this is an awesome site and has helped me alot, my point behind this post in this section was I know how you are feeling, I feel that pain, that confusion, that hurt, that anger.. BUT YOU WILL MAKE IT, it will just take time and when your not expecting it...if your here posting for answers, then ITS YOU WHO DESERVES BETTER and HAVE LOTS TO OFFER SOMEONE SOMETHINGS that wasn't offered to you in return.... LiL
mickleb Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 That's lovely, LiL. I'm very happy to read that and even happier for you. x
GrayClouds Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 So changing your name to LostInLov? I wish you well.
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