heartmonster Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 to make a long story short,. I had some problems with my bf of 3 years and almost broke up not that long ago.., due to the fact that he was sexually unsatisfied and i guess bored in our replationship,. and he wanted us to either try swinging or ocasionally have threesomes with other girls. I agreed at first, but after sometime realized that i was not comfortable with these things.,,. so now we have continued dating and i am left with the deep worry that my boyfriend might not be satisfied and it just feels like im not really doing the job of satisfiying my lover. I was wondering what you guys recommend i do to spice things up,. any stories of fun things you have tried or want to try. thank you all so much:)
BackUpOrGetStung Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Has he said why he is not satisfied? How often do you have sex? Do you try new things?
Author heartmonster Posted April 27, 2010 Author Posted April 27, 2010 Has he said why he is not satisfied? How often do you have sex? Do you try new things? He said he was just bored of the same routine,. although we try to switch it up it feels like everything we do we have done before,. .. We have sex pretty often depending on our schedules,. on average about 2/3 times a week,. We havent really "tried new things" in a while because i just feel discouraged,. i feel unsexy and like boring,. although he has told me that the problem isnt me its hard not to take those things personal.
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