WildWildWest Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 I been seeing a guy for the past months... nothing serious since I just got out of a terrible 6 year marriage and he has serious trust issues... I am the type of person who doesnt want to seem like the clingy needy type when it comes to men because my husband was that way with me and it drove me insane! So when dealing with this new one, I try not be be to clingy with him but I think in the process I am not being clingy enough... When I sit back and think about it I may really make it seem like I'm not interested because I tend to have a I dont give a f*** attitude when really I do... Could I be pushing him away by not showing any interest or affection? Does it turn a guy off when he has to initiate everything all the time? always being the one to make the moves or start the convo? How can I find the balance of not being over clingy but clingy enough?
Fouts Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 Could I be pushing him away by not showing any interest or affection? Does it turn a guy off when he has to initiate everything all the time? always being the one to make the moves or start the convo? The answer to those questions is yes, WWW. I tend to say this quite a bit on here, but why not be yourself? Modifying your behavior to appear to be someone different than you are is never a good idea in my opinion. You had a bad marriage, he has trust issues. So what, this is a new relationship with different dynamics and different people involved.
Recommended Posts