shadowplay Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 Hmmm. This reminds me a bit of my ex's clingy behavior when we started dating. Proceed with caution. You really need to communicate that you need space, but do it in a sensitive way. Often when things seem too good to be true at first they are. There's a reason this girl is so into so fast and it's not just you. She has issues.
pandagirl Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 OK, maybe we should stop making Vertex worried! Calling this girl a "nutcase," isn't very fair. The truth is, yes, he should be mindful of certain things, but it also shouldn't take away from the fun he's having right now. Carry on, young man.
Author VertexSquared Posted April 28, 2010 Author Posted April 28, 2010 I mean, so far everything's great... we do talk every day, but we aren't seeing each other every day now (at least not until Fri/Sat), but the pacing feels pretty natural and not rushed or anything. We've had sex a few times already and it's still a bit awkward but it'll probably become better with time/practice (my only complaint is that right now it's basically all about intercourse, although I'd rather switch to oral sometimes, but that's just me -- not sure if it's too early to try to bring that up, let alone how). We have a lot of fun together, even if it's just chilling out in front of the TV or going for a walk.
Star Gazer Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 With all due respect, V, if she's a nutcase, you are too... as you started the whole thing by asking her to be your girlfriend on the very day you met her. Just go with it. Try to ENJOY getting to know her.
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