romer Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 The ex and I have been NC for almost 2 months now. I was devastated after the break-up. About a week ago, I met someone wonderful. He says he is ready for a relationship, but he works so much it's hard for him to totally commit at the moment. He has a business that he is trying to launch. We got together over the weekend and had an awesome time...told me to call him Sunday after work, I tried and it went straight to voicemail. I sent him a text asking him to call me, and he texted back saying that Sundays were not good for him because he is trying to get things in order for the week. He did mention us getting together sometime this week. Yesterday, I texted him, telling him good morning and I hope he has a good day, and he texted me back saying he was having a good morning, and that was it for the entire day. I didn't hear from him at all. I am getting kind of tired of having to initiate contact all the time. But he is such a wonderful guy that I am wondering if it's worth it? He is distracting me from thinking about my ex...
sean1970 Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 After a substantial breakup, we often want to replace the ex quickly. Resist that... Your 'distractions' need to come from what you are doing for you and your new life, not another person. Sounds like you have shown this guy you are interested; If this guy is worth the time, he will come to you... If it trails off, maybe he was not as wonderful at you thought.
Ilovecake Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 After a substantial breakup, we often want to replace the ex quickly. Resist that... Your 'distractions' need to come from what you are doing for you and your new life, not another person. Sounds like you have shown this guy you are interested; If this guy is worth the time, he will come to you... If it trails off, maybe he was not as wonderful at you thought. Agreed. Sounds like you made it clear that you are interested, the ball is now in his court. If a guy tells me to contact him and I do and he blows me off like that I leave it in his hands to get back to me.
mr heartbroken Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 Hey, You have made it clear you like this guy. I kinda agree the ball is in his court. Let him come to you now. You have made contact a couple of times let him now contact you.
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