Nikki Sahagin Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 I think of myself as a very intuitive person. I can pick up thoughts and emotions that I know aren't mine that seem to come from nowhere. I know not everyone 'believes' in things like this, but I know that I pick up on these vibes...its almost like a de ja vu feeling, only its for something thats coming. I don't think i've ever been wrong. I've 'predicted' car crashes, break-ups, weddings, pregnancies....weird things haha and no i'm not saying i'm some kind of psychic, just that I often seem to pick up on these things...of course that doesn't mean i'm never wrong. Lately i've felt a really strong feeling that my ex will come back, or wants to come back. I know it may be wishful thinking, as I do still have that hope, but it just feels like feelings/thoughts that aren't mine sweeping into my day. I could easily be wrong about this and i'm not going to do anything, but these invasive feelings are difficult to manage...its like sensing what he is feeling. I know I should assume he isn't coming back and I have been, but this...'feeling' is really strong. Does anyone else ever experience anything similar? Do you think its your own hope or something more?
Heatemyheart89 Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 I do get strong feelings sometimes. I have been right about things too. But I know for sure my ex won't come back to me deep down I think its for the best anyway. I think theres still a slight hope he will. Hoping to stop that though as Ive been told theres no chance. Sorry im making this response more about me lol Maybe your ex will come back? unless you broke up on horrendous terms?Best to think that he wont though I think.Might save you heartache if he doesnt.
lisal0u Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 I get those feelings too, it's really weird! It's like Ive got a direct link to my ex's feelings at the minute and I hate it! I've never noticed it till now so I'm assuming stress is doing weird things to me :-( I've known each time my ex has been with the other woman and also knew he was going to tell me they were together on the day he did! I don't know what it is or why it's happening but I know it's real and I've never believed in anything like this before! If they are anything like my feelings then it could well be true I'm just not sure what to suggest you do?! Do you still see/talk to your ex?
EthanH Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 I feel exactly the same on this. I know for a fact that my ex hates how I seem to know what she is scared to admit... she hates how i will say something, she will rile against it, dismiss it, and then a few days later, she will realise I have a point and I'm right. She hates how I'm 'always right'... just the problem is, now, if I suggest anything, she fights against it...and yet the whole time since we broke up, she says she thinks I know her better than herself...
USMCHokie Posted April 27, 2010 Posted April 27, 2010 I get this feeling in my dreams...but in real life...no such luck...
just1guy Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 I get this feeling in my dreams...but in real life...no such luck... same here. I think these feelings work better in movies.
Author Nikki Sahagin Posted April 28, 2010 Author Posted April 28, 2010 I get those feelings too, it's really weird! It's like Ive got a direct link to my ex's feelings at the minute and I hate it! I've never noticed it till now so I'm assuming stress is doing weird things to me :-( I've known each time my ex has been with the other woman and also knew he was going to tell me they were together on the day he did! I don't know what it is or why it's happening but I know it's real and I've never believed in anything like this before! If they are anything like my feelings then it could well be true I'm just not sure what to suggest you do?! Do you still see/talk to your ex? We were still communicating but we haven't for a while now. I think its safer for me to assume he will never want me back and carry on blocking these signal out. I mean, even if he is feeling these things, if he wont act on them, then he doesn't feel them enough.
Lucy24 Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 I think when you spend the time to get to know each other you pick up on there moods and there day to day life patern small thing some people would not notice like when there happy sad got something on there mind hungry tired and so on. I know my ex is in a confused state right now and has to many paths to pick at my ex left me to see other people but instead of handling it the issue was all about controll and still is as my ex wanted me to stick around and be a back burner. My ex knows deep down I wont come back not even to be civil and that I will go on with my life like they did not enter into it knowing that they screwed over what they will want to be with in the end after playing the feild and stupid games and will have to find it some where else. Which has pissed my ex off and now my ex is acting desperatly to try and claw a way back into my life and eventualy my good books to keep me on the line somehow as it has now sunk in they are lonely. so yes i do think you can pick up on how they feel and think when you have spent alot of time away from them. Its like that close friend you have not seen in 2/3 years and when you do you just click like you have not been apart.
cmichael16 Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 Boy I know what you mean about those nagging feelings, There is something going on in mine and my exs head. I know when she is doing something "wrong" (smoking pot, driving drunk, etc) and usually get this confirmed by one of our friends telling me (thank god Ive asked them not to talk about her anymore) a for instance, I had a dream last night about her, woke up with a feeling in my gut that something was gonna happen today. at 10am she texts me, wasnt about US but business, but I am in NC and I knew it was gonna happen. it is a weird intuition, and I somewhere have a feeling she will be back. probably after I have met and fallen in love with someone else and then Ill have to say no way because I know it wouldnt last (it might last but who are we kidding its like a 1 in 1000 chance) SO I am ignoring those feelings for now.
Author Nikki Sahagin Posted April 28, 2010 Author Posted April 28, 2010 I'm glad i'm not the only one. Its so strange isn't it? There are moments I feel he is happy or calm, others sad, others angry, there are moments I feel he is settled and not coming back and others I feel very strongly, he is thinking of me. I suppose it is just through knowing someone so well and having had that connection.
cmichael16 Posted April 28, 2010 Posted April 28, 2010 CRAAAP, Twice in one day Ive got that gut feeling, thats a total of 4 times in the last 6 months....Something always presents itself within 4 days for instance Last 4 times: Cousin Died, exGF Dumped me, Ex texted me (today), and now??? I hate the feeling.
Anela Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 I've had that feeling with someone, and they did come back - more than once. I get the feelings from time to time, but I'm not sure they will come back again; sometimes I wish that they would, and at other times I think it's best that they don't - at least for a while.
name witheld Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 Its true that there is a lot of things we have still to learn about the world and the greater universe, so who knows if it is possible or not to have some sort of ESP. Me personally I don't think I beleive in this as I think its more than likely just chemical signals in your brain making you think its intuition. However, sometimes I get this bad feeling and when it first happened I couldn't link it to anything but after a while it seemed to stir up before something bad happened. I think of it as my spidey sense but have no idea how it works or if indeed it is activated by subconcious clues or if it is in fact some sort of ESP.
annxxdisaster Posted April 29, 2010 Posted April 29, 2010 There is actually a fella who wrote a book all about intuition and gut feelings. My psych professor recommended it to our class and I plan to check it out once my semester dies down.. http://www.gladwell.com/blink/index.html
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